loveinlife Posted March 5, 2008 Posted March 5, 2008 i still talk to her and hang out with her. She still invites me to her house. Her father passed away 2 months ago. Prior to this she was thinking about going back out with me. Now she said she just wants to concentrate on school. The only thing im worried about is that im going to lose her bc she might meet someone else. stressful. is it bc her father passed away n she needs space?
Ronni_W Posted March 5, 2008 Posted March 5, 2008 There are many considerations: [1] Maybe she was thinking about getting back with you only because she was feeling lonely or desperate or some other non-positive reason. [2] Maybe her father's death HAS caused her to reevaluate her life and options, and she has reached conclusion that you are not the right person for her. [3] If she does start dating someone else, isn't that proof that your initial break-up was the right thing to do (at least, for her part)? Are you quite sure that you want to engage in futile worrying about whether or not your ex-girlfriend will eventually get into a new love relationship? If not, perhaps you can find new things with which to occupy that part of your mind that is submitting to the worry? It is often difficult, but sometimes the best thing is to just focus on moving forward.
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