Whey2Big4u Posted March 4, 2008 Posted March 4, 2008 i have posted my story prior, so im not going to mention what had happened. Its been six months now since my fiance left me. The other day our dog, which i have, i thought swallowed a chapstick cap! She was onmine so i IMed her and told her, she said she was worried, thats it...........later i told her he was coughing and i gave him water and hopefully hell throw it up, she answered "ok".... that night he threw it up so the next moring i text her "i know you really dont care, but he threw it up and hes ok" she wrote back with: "how dare you say i dont car, you should take better care of him' ME: "after previous conversations and you saying you dont want to be freinds or talk, i get that you dont care" HER: "just becasue i dont wanna to be freinds or talk doesnt mean i dont care about him. After i clearly told you i dont want to be your friend you still persist to contact me, via emails, and texts, your not giving me room to breahte, your forcing me to be mean to you" now i only contacted her maybe 10 times within the last six months, how much breathing room does this bitch need. I said that if she gave me some respect and sat with me and told me what was going on instead of handeling like a child i would nopt have had to guess and assume and had to reach out so much to figure things out. i asked her what she was scared about, meeting with me and talking to me. she called me dense so i called her conceded long story short after some words exchanged she said i was good for nothing and was wasting her money with text (she took thousands of dollars form me, so i went off) i ended it with your a cheating rusky drunk sl-t gold digger who can only make a decision with her slut rusky friends.......And that she forced me to be the a hole and that i didnt want to be. she usually answers...so the last text was "cat got your tongue or are you stunned by the truth" it seems that everytime i try to be nice she gets mean and makes me mean and its my fault..... Whats going on with this women???????????????? I asked a friend who said that she probably wants to be with me, but feels she cant and that any contact with me makes her upset and therefore says she doenst want contact........... also shes going to be in a play in two months and its on the dya of our would be six year aniverssary.......should i go? I never missed any of her plays... can anyone make of this from a womens perspective.. i do enjoy physcology
vivrantflo Posted March 4, 2008 Posted March 4, 2008 I never read your original story... so im trying to get info from your entry here.. You guys were engaged.. She cheated on you.. She left you.. She requested no friendship..AND NC She took a lot of money from you.. No dude.. she doesn't want to be with you.. From what I See, she sounds like a terrible person.. and you're contemplating going to her play?? u serious?? You need to go NC with this woman, and try your hardest to emotionally detach yourself from her. Actions speak louder than words, and she's isn't even saying anything promising for you to hold on to. She's treating you like she doesn't care about you, so she doesn't. You don't want a woman that can walk away from an engagement anyway. Don't contact her.. take her number out of your phone so you're not tempted to call or text. She doesn't want to talk to you, so why did you contact her about the dog? NC and stick to it.
amaysngrace Posted March 4, 2008 Posted March 4, 2008 Drop out of her life like...yesterday. Be gone from her life. You are bugging her. Why would you want to stick around someone who doesn't want you around? The dog had an accident. You had to call her. Why? Aren't you able to take care of things on your own? You are probably providing her with an ego boost every time you call her. Know that. You are pumping her up so she can share stories with her friends about how into her you still are. She is laughing at you. Next time you want to call her try to remember that.
serendip Posted March 4, 2008 Posted March 4, 2008 I asked a friend who said that she probably wants to be with me, but feels she cant and that any contact with me makes her upset and therefore says she doenst want contact........... I don't know your story but... I think your friend is totally wrong...she doesn't want you at all. I think you wanted a reason to contact her(i.e. dog)...and when she just responded with normal short answers...you started up with something confrontational "i know you really dont care, but he threw it up and hes ok" ...of course this is going to create emotions then you finally blew up at her by calling her a.... "cheating rusky drunk sl-t gold digger who can only make a decision with her slut rusky friends.......And that she forced me to be the a hole and that i didnt want to be." No one forced you to be an a-hole...you contacted her and she responded in what most people what see as a appropriate fashion...then you went into confrontational mode It's obvious you are still hurting from the break up and just wanted to lash out...best you don't see her play or contact her until you are healed
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