dreamergrl Posted March 3, 2008 Posted March 3, 2008 So I've come to the conclusion I have the female version of the Good Luck Chuck curse. For those of you who haven't seen the movie, when Chuck breaks it off with a girl, she marries the next guy she meets. I recently just happened to find out that 2 out of 3 of my serious relationships are to be married to the girl they started dating after me. One of these guys happens to be my ex fiance - who will be getting married in May just like we were suppose to. Grant it, I'm only 26 - but this makes me feel behind the "starting a family" stage of life. I know things happen differently for everyone, and when the right person comes along it will happen, but it's still kinda depressing! Anyone else go through this??
blind_otter Posted March 3, 2008 Posted March 3, 2008 I was talking about this with a friend yesterday actually. I told her she was like "Good Luck Chuck" in a way because all of her ex's went on to be extremely successful in their lives - only AFTER breaking up with her. You gotta wonder.....
Cobra_X30 Posted March 3, 2008 Posted March 3, 2008 I was talking about this with a friend yesterday actually. I told her she was like "Good Luck Chuck" in a way because all of her ex's went on to be extremely successful in their lives - only AFTER breaking up with her. You gotta wonder..... Some people are good learning experiences. I once had a roommate who was perhaps the planet's biggest slob. I left after 3 months. Ever since I have been very aware of how clean I keep my living spaces. Do you see what I mean?
Ebeleptik38 Posted March 3, 2008 Posted March 3, 2008 Dreamergirl...unless that's really what you want right now (given you find the right guy ) you really should embrace your 20's! Your young and beautiful, why not take advantage of this while you can?! I mean I feel your loss, and your losing out. But obviously you weren't meant to be....and that just means the "one" that is is still out there. So live it up while your still in your search. I'm 27 myself... not much older than you. I don't about you, but these years are just flying by every year faster and faster! I guess you can enjoy your youth now, or in another light maybe the years are moving too fast and your just looking to settle down before the time ddoes fly by. 30's are the new 20's!!
Author dreamergrl Posted March 3, 2008 Author Posted March 3, 2008 Well if I had the right man in my life, and had been with him long enough, I'd welcome getting married. At the same time I wouldn't settle for anyone either. But I mean growing up, didn't you ever have that plan in mind, like I'd like to be here at this age and so on? I get the whole learning experiences too, I really do. My most recent ex was a huge one! But being that I was a learning experience for other people as well, makes me wonder if there's something wrong with me lol
Balthazar Posted March 3, 2008 Posted March 3, 2008 I was in a relationship with a "Good Luck Chuck" chick. All of her ex's(about 5-6 guys) had married after her. She would joke to me about how I would marry after we broke up. I didn't though, so I guess I broke her Good Luck Chuck chain!
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