pandachan Posted March 3, 2008 Posted March 3, 2008 My boyfriend and I have been together for over two years. When we first started having sex it was a constant. We were each other's first and very curious. Through these two years my boyfriend has pulled away in the bedroom. A few months ago he told me that he just didn't get anything out of sex. I found out that for a while the only reason he would have sex with me was to make me happy. Our relationship was intellectually based and we go together very well. We've always been so happy together and this doesn't really seem to bother him but it does me. I want to give him the same thing he gives me. Any clues?
JerseyShortie Posted March 3, 2008 Posted March 3, 2008 Okay.. unless your boyfriend is part of the 1% of the population that doesn't care about sex, there are probably other issues going on here. Could he be having trouble getting erections and is too embarressed to address the issue? Does he look at porn? Does he check out other women?
carhill Posted March 3, 2008 Posted March 3, 2008 As a guy, my instinct is that something else is going on. I lost my virginity pretty late and my sexual patterns have been pretty constant. Not a rule, but an indicator. It's normal for sex to change as the relationship matures but "not getting anything" out of sex is a red flag, IMO.
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