sexyamy Posted March 3, 2008 Posted March 3, 2008 I recently found out that my boyfriend is cheating on me, I don't know if I should forgive him or will he do it again, once a cheater always a cheater?
Replicant Posted March 3, 2008 Posted March 3, 2008 I recently found out that my boyfriend is cheating on me, I don't know if I should forgive him or will he do it again, once a cheater always a cheater? Forgiveness has it's limits, cheating is one of those limits.
Lizzie60 Posted March 3, 2008 Posted March 3, 2008 I recently found out that my boyfriend is cheating on me, I don't know if I should forgive him or will he do it again, once a cheater always a cheater? He will probably do it again... Most of the time.. once a cheater, always a cheater..
twice_shy Posted March 3, 2008 Posted March 3, 2008 I recently found out that my boyfriend is cheating on me, I don't know if I should forgive him or will he do it again, once a cheater always a cheater? As far as I'm concerned that saying holds true. Dump him and move on. Because really, do you think you could look at him and not see "cheater" written all over his forhead from here on out? In my book cheaters don't deserve a second chance.
norajane Posted March 3, 2008 Posted March 3, 2008 Cheating would be a deal-breaker for me. If they can lie to your face and sneak around behind your back and deceive you, then no matter what they say about their feelings for you, they are capable of hurting you for their own selfish needs. Why give someone your best when they don't treasure it? If more people thought cheating was a deal-breaker and broke up with cheater instead of putting up with it, fewer people would cheat. No consequences = no change in behavior.
LikesMeNot Posted March 3, 2008 Posted March 3, 2008 break up with him. he probably deserves it. men like that do not care about a specific person, only themselves. when a girl cheats on me (happened 2ice before, it's out the door for them. relax, it's not your fault. have him leave your life forever, he's not worth the trouble.
sb129 Posted March 3, 2008 Posted March 3, 2008 This is a new form of ad-post. Click on the OPs signature....
norajane Posted March 3, 2008 Posted March 3, 2008 This is a new form of ad-post. Click on the OPs signature.... If that's where she found the cheater, it's not much of an incentive to sign up!
sb129 Posted March 3, 2008 Posted March 3, 2008 If that's where she found the cheater, it's not much of an incentive to sign up! Precisely... Note it did say "men"...
xpaperxcutx Posted March 3, 2008 Posted March 3, 2008 It's like a kid stealing cookies from a cookie jar. He got away with it , what's to stop him from doing it again?
trans Posted March 5, 2008 Posted March 5, 2008 not necessarily .. if he once cheated on you .. and considering the fact that u made him realize what he did was wrong .. i doubt he'd do it again .. again , considering the fact that he has at least a pinch of guilt in his heart ..
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