Tincup Posted March 2, 2008 Posted March 2, 2008 I have posted before about a lady that I am interested that has kids at home all the time. I am recently divorced and also have kids but only have them 50% of the time. My marriage ended due to an affair my wife had, and I have all the baggage that one would expect from such a break up. I have trust issues, and do have want to face rejection again. I only see this women every week or so since we both have kids. We live really close to each other, but I don't want to interfere with her time with her kids. This women is fantastic, we have gone out a couple of times, once to dinner and once to a kid movie with her kids and some of her kids friends. Each time we have been together we have talked for several hours. Now to my question, she asked me to go to a recreation park today with her and her child and friends. I made up a excuse and did not go. I doubt she knows that it was an excuse as I really have not been feeling well. The reason I did not go was that I really fear the next step. I do not know how she feels about me. My X really messed with my head. Any advice...? Should I just tell this lady that I have developed feeling for her but I am scared to death?
Pyro Posted March 2, 2008 Posted March 2, 2008 You should definitely be open and honest with her about everything. You owe it to this woman. Sounds like you haven't given yourself enough time to get over your ex and what she did to you completely. I say that you can either go through counseling or the other necessary steps to get help so that you can move on, or you can stop seeing this woman until you are able to overcome your fears and insecurities from your past relationship.
Letranger Posted March 2, 2008 Posted March 2, 2008 Yeah. Honestly, I don't think she deserves the treatment you are giving her. Let her go so she can go find someone that can 'deal' with her 'situation'.
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