LoveLace Posted March 2, 2008 Posted March 2, 2008 Getting over Dan has been hard. I still think about him pretty often. But I joined some dating site and lots of guys try to talk with me, tell me I'm beautiful and such. I'm somewhat interested in 2 guys on there so far, which of whom I've been chatting with a little. Then on Friday at happy hour, I ran into an old friend, and this guy in her group was instantly checking me out and she kept saying he wants to talk to me. He was cute and very sweet but I didn't feel much attraction or chemistry; I gave him my # and he called an hour later that night to see if I gave him the right one! It was funny... Then last night I attended a friend's 30th b-day bash. A couple people asked me about Dan, "where's your man?"...I explained it's over and had a pretty long talk with a guy friend about it; he said that I put my foot down and I've done nothing wrong, said I'm a beautiful woman. The compliments were dropping like bombs all weekend! While at the party, someone mentioned a friend of ours who wasn't there, Alex. Alex and I "hooked up" once a long time ago, nothing came of it although we've been cool ever since. I called him last night to see what he was up to. Alex thought I was trying to make a booty call! I explained to him that I was not! He asked if I remembered the time we hooked up and I said yes, and he said that he always wanted to spend more time with me! Then he said what if I just call you out of the blue sometime and ask you out? I said that would be great! So now it feels like I have an array of dudes to choose from! This was all just what I needed. I still miss Dan and am frustrated that he's too blind to see what these other guys seem to see. But at least I don't have to sit around and think about him, long as other guys are occupying my attention!
carhill Posted March 2, 2008 Posted March 2, 2008 Hello! I can't recall a female friend who ever had a shortage of potential suitors. It's just a function of being female. It'll probably end just about the time you're dead
xpaperxcutx Posted March 2, 2008 Posted March 2, 2008 I don't know what happened between you and your ex, but its nice to hear that you're trying to move on. Sometimes we can't help thinking about them, but the more you're preoccupied with your own things, you'll find one day those thoughts and longings will have gone. Go out and have fun. You deserve it.
Author LoveLace Posted March 2, 2008 Author Posted March 2, 2008 Subject: Dan's Personal Ad (yes I sent this to him) Hi, my name is Dan! I love baseball, golf, I'm tall and handsome, and a good time to be around. If your'e into chasing men, I'm the guy for you, because I rarely return calls and I'm never there when you want me to be. Best of all, I'm good at playing with your head, f**ing your brains out, and making you think I'm really into you, though I'm really just very into myself. I am a top-notch playing, selfish pr**k. You won't be sorry, because I"m too big of a p***y to let something good keep going. If you don't like flowers, romantic gestures, or guys who give 2 s***s about you, then we should talk. You don't have to worry about me bugging you for dates, because I only call 5 min. before I want to see you, then I'll leave you alone for weeks, maybe even months. If this sounds like we have things in common, I hope to hear from you. Have a nice day. ha ha ha ha.....i love it.
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