hobbitthedog Posted March 1, 2008 Posted March 1, 2008 So, I am a junior in highschool, and there is this girl who I like, and she sits next to me in my history class. We have been friends close to the entire year, and have even hung out to study for a test at the library. To clue her in to my liking her I got her some flowers for Valentine's Day, but unfortunatly I wasn't able to give them to her in person due to time conflicts. She seemed to like them, and sent me a text message saying it was sweet. Then my school had a week long break, and over that she texted me just to chat really. When we came back from break I was determined to ask her out. Unfortunatly though she hasn't returned any of my text messages, and hasn't been in my history class the past three days. I overheard her friends saying the other day that I was trying to trick her into talking to me, but I think they may just be gossiping. What should I do now that it is the weekend, and I can't really talk to her if she won't respond to me by phone. She has always quickly responded to me in the past, so I don't know if she is sick, or just ignoring me. Any help would be appreciated. Thanks
EYECANDY000 Posted March 1, 2008 Posted March 1, 2008 High School is complicated but wait til you experience the real world! anyways if she hasnt been in school as well then there may be some personal issues going on with her. Id wait til she comes back to school and ask if she is ok, before you start talking about hanging out with her.
xpaperxcutx Posted March 1, 2008 Posted March 1, 2008 Drama.... I don't recommend that you call her anytime soon especially since she hasn't returned any of your calls. Wait for school to start next week and see whether she has returned to school. It's probably that she was sick or something. Do not confront her or anything. She's not obligated to.
Author hobbitthedog Posted March 1, 2008 Author Posted March 1, 2008 If she's there monday I am planning on asking her out. Is that enough time. Also if she does say no, I have sat next to her in history the entire year. Will things change between us?
HokeyReligions Posted March 1, 2008 Posted March 1, 2008 Not unless you change it. If she says no, just say Oh well, I thought I'd ask, and be friends. If you turn on her and distance yourself because your feelings/ego are hurt then things will be weird with her, and with anyone she talks to about how you handled the rejection. It takes two to begin a relationship so if she does say no, you haven't really lost anything since nothing has begun between you except for school work. I hope she's not sick. There is a nasty flu going around.
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