tatur Posted February 28, 2008 Posted February 28, 2008 my girlfriend is always doing stuff to keep her busy shes on the swim team and now she did the school play she is with this commitee and now she sais she wants to do this other comittee im happy for her that she does all this stuff but i also say that she is way to busy and we never have time to spend time together or get intamate is it wrong for me to feel this way ?
xpaperxcutx Posted February 28, 2008 Posted February 28, 2008 No, but you can't expect her to drop everything and be with you 24/7. Understand that she's still in school and has her own social life, as I'm sure you have your social life to deal with too.
Author tatur Posted February 28, 2008 Author Posted February 28, 2008 no i dont want to her drop her whole life i just would like her to be a little less busy excpesially when she always complains that she is to busy and gets stressed out and then decides to take that stress out on me so i tell her to not do so much so she can sped more time with me and be less stressed
xpaperxcutx Posted February 28, 2008 Posted February 28, 2008 It was her choice and decision to join all these clubs and participate in all these activities. Nobody can anticipate for the stress involved. Can you try to be accomodating to her needs right now? I understand that she hardly has time for you, but I doubt that she will be in a good mood if you bring it up with her straight away. If anything try to understand the position she's in, and if anything try to see whether you can fit your schedule to hers?
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