tonyeltiger Posted February 27, 2008 Posted February 27, 2008 This is probably a silly thing to start a thread about, but I have been wondering something. As all who know my story know, my ex has begun dating someone else. He has put that he is "in a relationship" on his myspace and facebook. She has put "in a relationship" on her myspace, but not on her facebook. I could be reading FAR too much into this, but I can't help but feel that she doesn't want to put "in a relationship" on her facebook because it will notify all of our friends, that she is ALREADY in a new relationship (because in my opinion it is silly and immature, probably needs a man always to validate her). I also wonder if she has not told her closest friends about her new guy (I think her close friends really liked me). I can't help but feel that if I were her rebound guy, I would feel upset that she is being secretive about it, but since they just started dating, he probably doesn't want to rub her the wrong way and confront her about it. And if it is the case that she is keeping him secret, then she obviously is rushing into things. Basing a new relationship on secrets and whatnot (not even sure if he knows that she just got out of a 4 year relationship or not) seems to be setting yourself up for failure. I truly do want her to be happy. Although I would be well within my rights to begin hating her, I still can't help but love her. So even though I shouldn't get my hopes up, I hope that she realizes she's not ready, and takes a longer break and find herself without a guy complicating things (like she said she wanted to). Not that her breaking up with him would necessarily bring her back to me oh well. Thanks for listening to me vent and speculate and hurt myself probably lol!
Author tonyeltiger Posted February 27, 2008 Author Posted February 27, 2008 wow, she just put "in a relationship" on her facebook. Almost creepy. WOnder if she reads this? If you are reading this, that proves you're not ready to be in a relationship with this guy if you are keeping tabs on me. Not that she is. It is the worst feeling to be so easily replaced. ; ;
xpaperxcutx Posted February 27, 2008 Posted February 27, 2008 That's the thing about facebook and myspace, you can't help but notice that relatioship status box. I know it's hard to let it go, but apparently you need to initiate NC as soon as possible. You need to stop checking up on her personal life, because right now you need to focus on yourself.
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