SarahT111 Posted February 27, 2008 Posted February 27, 2008 Why do I no realise how much I love someone untill it is to late?! Why do I not realise how much I need someone untill it is to late? Is anyone else like this? When I was with my ex in the dying months I thought I didn't love him and I would be fine without him. Now that he is gone I love him more than ever, i miss him so much There is so much stuff I wish I had said and done but its far to late He will never know how much Im crying over him and he will never know there is one person out there who truly loves him till the end of the earth and back yet was to stupid to express it when it mattered Now its to late. Why am I like this? We fought alot and he didn't treat me that well yet I love him more than ever! I miss him so much :mad::mad: Theres nothing I can do now, I cant move on as I love him to much yet he doesn't return it How do I live with all this?!
carhill Posted February 27, 2008 Posted February 27, 2008 You want what you can't have If anything, for me, I realize it too early, and must be patient to discover if the feelings are mutual. Patience is a big thing with me, though I'm sure my wife would disagree
Goodin Posted February 27, 2008 Posted February 27, 2008 Hi Sarah - If you will read my post of a few minutes ago you will see that I am in the same situation too! Can you not go back to him? Is he in another relationship?
lovesickgurl Posted February 27, 2008 Posted February 27, 2008 Is it really too late, or is there a chance that if you told him how you feel he would give it another chance? If there is no chance of having him back, I think you need to focus on the future and try to forget about any regrets you may have. You said that the two of you fought a lot, and he did not treat you that well. You need to remind yourself of that when you are filled with regret. Even though you love him very much, maybe it was for the best that it did not work out.
BrianG Posted February 27, 2008 Posted February 27, 2008 After the break-up and plenty of self-reflection I asked myself those same questions. I dont know if this will help you, but the sooner you realize there is nothing you can do to change the past, so why let it haunt you. Trust me I know how difficult it is. The only thing in life that I am certain about is that it goes on. If you cannot let go of a past that you cannot change you will be stuck. Also, try not to focus on the future without him because nobody knows what the future holds. In conclusion, dont worry about the past or the future. Worry about getting through today the present. Have a mindset of doing what you need to do to get through today and thats it. Use that same mindset each and every day and eventually it will get a little bit easier to manage over time. Why worry about a past you cannot change or a future you can't control.
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