manu11 Posted February 26, 2008 Posted February 26, 2008 Brief History; Girlfriend broke up with me before Christmas after dating for 9 months, reasons being me not putting enough into the relationship as she was… or so she says, this girl was crazy about me by the way, did all the chasing and asked me out but I did get jealous in the last month because of one of her best male friends, totally out of character for me as im not a jealous person and this was prob the main reason for the end of things. I did the whole begging thing for about 10 days after the breakup but then copped on to myself and went back to normal, all cool, didn’t care anymore etc.. I started NC in late December and deleted my facebook etc… Now we are both as stubborn as each other so there was no way I was breaking NC, I had moved on anyways so didn’t want to. After 7 or 8 weeks she breaks it by contacting me by SMS message, I don’t reply, following week I get another SMS and give a quick reply just saying “hope your well, chat to you some other time, etc..” didn’t want a reply as I was busy but got one, so replied “just heading out so I cant talk”… few days later she adds me as a friend on my new facebook, i don’t log in much anymore but got the email to notify me, i didn’t bother to log in. Next night I get another SMS message, so because I have no hard feelings towards the girl I replied, few messages were sent back and forth and then she rings me, so we talk for about 10 min about nothing important ( I did not want to bring up the relationship, she mentioned something about when I was her boyfriend but I quickly changed the subject) and then I end the conversation and say good night and thanks for calling. 5 minutes later I get another phone call from her but didn’t answer, (it was 12.15am) followed by an SMS just saying my name. This is when I turn off the phone. Now I got the impression during the phone call that she wanted to say something to me but was either waiting for the right time or plucking up the courage to do so, I dunno though, could be looking too much into it. Now I don’t want to get back with the girl because things in my life have taken a turn for the better since breaking up but I don’t like talking to my mates about past relationships so that’s why I came on here. Im the sort of guy who likes to know what is going on… and up until now I was fine but now her recent behaviour has me confused as to what she is up to.. Any ideas ?
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