kiraknight Posted February 26, 2008 Posted February 26, 2008 When a guy calls you and leaves a message saying "hope you got back to your room ok ill im you tomorrow" and he does that. I got a bit tipsy and flirted with my crush. He def. flirted back, there were some there who said "he might like you." Im not even sure how drunk he was, he sometimes does this thing where he has 2 and "pretends" and someone yelled at him for doing it that night. I almost told him I liked him after the party. I went to his room and said "lets talk" but chickened out and just left. He then left me 2 voicemails one saying that. Hes just worried im pissed at him right? We're friends (not very good friends though) and hes never shown any real unmistakable interest while sober. Maybe some small signs (he did randomly touch me on the shoulders twice when he doesnt usually, and he once did give me a..."different" look when his friend showed me his phone and there was a text stating "Get a date" but I chalk it up to me liking him so much I psychoanalyze it and read too much into things. Im sure I was imagining things, anyway Im pretty sure he knows I like him, someone told him once but he said "Oh so I should be on the lookout?" what the hell so it might be him just being weird bc he knows) Hes never had a gf or even kissed a girl before. He does have some gay tendencies but he also has some other not so gay tendencies. I guess for awhile because of the no gf thing I thought he must be secretly gay. But then I found out he use to like all these girls. Guys are confusing
Blue Eyed Brain Posted February 26, 2008 Posted February 26, 2008 He cares about you and possibly likes you, but the fact that he hasn't kissed someone yet could be a sub conscience to being sexually confused. COULD be.
carhill Posted February 26, 2008 Posted February 26, 2008 Ages here? Does he look into your eyes when he listens to you? Try taking his hand and gauge his response. Pay special attention to his autonomic response to your touch. Don't express surprise or disdain if he recoils a bit. Tell him you like him (I assume you do). Watch his reaction. "Gay" tendancies (a stereotype) can be a sign of a sensitive nervous system in an otherwise straight guy. Try not to over-analyze things
Author kiraknight Posted February 26, 2008 Author Posted February 26, 2008 we're both 20. Actually when I talk to him he doesnt always make a whole lot of eye contact. He did more when he was tipsy but he doesnt do it a whole lot when sober. I dunno- he does that with everyone because my friends have remarked on it saying he must be insecure.
carhill Posted February 26, 2008 Posted February 26, 2008 If he is otherwise a gentleman when he's had a few, I'd try this again when you go out and have a few drinks, even if with a group (if less stressful that way). Alcohol lowers inhibitions and brings out one's underlying personality which insecurity or shyness may hide normally. If you like him, and he's otherwise a gentleman, I'd give it some time. There must be something that's drawing you to him, given his introverted nature. Examine that.
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