Tincup Posted February 25, 2008 Posted February 25, 2008 There is a Lady that I have seen a couple of times. We both have kids from previous marriages, so we don't see each other as much as I would like. I am recently divorced and it was a painful experience. This women has taken things very slow with me which has been great. We have gone out a couple of times and really seem to enjoy each others company. Here is my problem...Every time i have contacted her (either by text or phone call) see responds back within minutes. We have some form of contact every couple of days. Everything seemed to be going great. I saw her last weekend, and got a quick text later that evening saying that she had a great time. We texted back and forth some this past week, and again everything seemed fine. Then this weekend it all seemed to stop. I called and left her a message on Saturday and never got a call back. What do you think is up? I really don't think I did anything to upset her. Or maybe it is something that I did not do, I don't know. Any advise?
sally4sara Posted February 25, 2008 Posted February 25, 2008 Maybe she didn't get your text. If you two have been texting alot, her in box might be too full to receive any more. It happens to me now and then and I have to empty the thing out to receive the new messages. Even then, sometimes I don't get them all and one of my friends calls me up in a huff wondering why I didn't respond. Try her again. For all you know she is wondering why you seemingly dropped the ball and isn't texting/calling you because she worries about making you feel smothered. After all, you're the one who just got divorced.
Author Tincup Posted February 25, 2008 Author Posted February 25, 2008 I worry if I continue to try to contact her that I will seem like I am needy or stalking her. I just think if I continue to contact her it will come across as a negative.
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