JustBreathe Posted March 10, 2008 Posted March 10, 2008 Darth is right. Recovering from your spouse's affair comes in stages. Like what happens when a person dies. Look them up on the net. I guess it's possible for people to just accept from the jump that their partner's been unfaithful and can put their own feelings aside and move on. I do hope your wife is being on the up and up and that will be enough for you.
LakesideDream Posted March 10, 2008 Posted March 10, 2008 Wow, Hurtsimom, you are lucky. Six or so meetings, including an overnight in three months. I didn't know how easily you are to forgive. Would it really be worse if she was shacking up with the dude, and giving it up 3 times a day? Or... would that just be a bigger challenge for you to forgive?
Darth Vader Posted March 11, 2008 Posted March 11, 2008 Darth is right. Recovering from your spouse's affair comes in stages. Like what happens when a person dies. Look them up on the net. The only thing is, that most people would rather someone would've died rather than go through this sort of thing. It would be easier to get over!
jmargel Posted March 11, 2008 Posted March 11, 2008 I really urge you two to continue marriage counseling. For in a few weeks things will go back to the way they were if you don't. You two have not found or dealt with the real issue in all of this. You also have to learn how to communicate better, this is something you two can't do on your own.
twice_shy Posted March 11, 2008 Posted March 11, 2008 I really urge you two to continue marriage counseling. Nah, F##K that. I urge him to pack her bags and serve her with divorce papers.
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