SarahT111 Posted February 25, 2008 Posted February 25, 2008 Hey again! I need some advice again Im sure your all familiar with my breakup story by now. Everything since the break up has been a mess:mad: My life goes from bad to worse After the breakup I lost most mutual friends as my ex spread lies that i cheated on him so he had to dump me. He made me out to look horrible and himself the poor innocent boy who got his heart broken when infact it was the exact opposite. He was so good at it all our friends now hate me. I came out of it with two friends on my side. Today I went into work only to find out I was now fired as I had been slacking off. It hit like a ton of bricks and I went home and cried. I then got up to check my phone and found my only two mutal friends left were mad at me as they feel like I dont trust them enough not to change to my exs side. I guess they are right as I am paranoid every1 will take his side! Anyway now they aren't talking to me either! I tried to apologize but got no response Honestly what do I do?? getting treated like I did and then getting dumped is hard enough, but now all my friends hate me to. Its not like I can go and change their minds as I will just look like the jealous ex gf trying to make him lose friends. I no you will write back and say I dont need friends like this but these guys were my best friends and I cant avoid not seeing them all the time. My ex and his girl are currently out there all happy and laughing at me. My ex friends all think Im getting what I deserve and have no sympathy NO ONE is on my side and NO ONE understands or knows whats really happening How much more can one take????????? What do I do?! Im low enough already, but to have my ex and all my ex friends all totally happy and laughing at me getting what I deserve is to much And to add to it I still love him and miss him like mad!!!!
Leia Posted February 25, 2008 Posted February 25, 2008 Oh my!! That is awful! What a jerk!!! What a twisted low SOB *&)$_&)%&)@!_)%^!!!!!!!!!!! This really sucks, Sarah. I don't even know what to say as I have never been in this situation plus if my friends think I'm not too good or too insecure (I can understand why you with all this happening) then they can leave. I have no problem making new friends. That said, they ARE your best friends so I am sure they'll come around soon. They are hurt that you don't trust them enough but I don't blame you. I would feel so betrayed by everyone who took his side and they should know better.... has everyone been friends for long with one another?? He must be one hell of an actor.... should have won an Academy Award! I'm sorry you lost your job too. Is there any other that you can get an interview with? Are you college too?
joeapa Posted February 25, 2008 Posted February 25, 2008 after all that you've been through you deserve so much more than what your getting. I'm learning that it can be extremely hard to move on after a relationship but you really have it tough right now. try to stay strong and know that I'm rooting for you;)
mark982 Posted February 25, 2008 Posted February 25, 2008 sarah,first off those "friends" aren't real friends.chuck them and forget them.i went through that crap w/ my 1st wife(25 yrs ago)to this day i will not speak to them.
Author SarahT111 Posted February 25, 2008 Author Posted February 25, 2008 Thanks guys Really appreciate the replies Gosh times are tough for me at the moment. I know there are people who have it 10x worse then me but this is a REALLY hard and painful time for me It seemes like the whole world is out to get me Honestly how can one person treat you so badly and get away with it and come out even better while I have suffered soooooooooooooo badly It all seemes so unfair right now!!!!!!!!!! Im not perfect but I don't think im a bad person and I didn't deserve to go through all this did I? O well i will struggle through with the hope that one day this will all turn around for me Its the only thing that keeps me going at the moment!
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