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so i dont think theres any hope with having a relationship with i girl i really like.

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so i finally talked to this girl about what was going on between was. we have been spending alot of time together, and i was getting a bit if a feeling that she might be leading me on. so i confronted her. i meet her and ask what was going on between us, are you going to be friends or are we going to advance our relationship because ive been having a really good time and i was wondering about weather the relationship was going to go further. she said that she "kinda of wants to be friends right now". so ya i guess thats that, theres no hope of anything more then just friends. i waisted alot of money and time hoping that there was a possibility she could be my girlfriend. but i was wrong.

 

what do you think? there isnt any hope for a more then friends relationship with her anymore, is there?

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so i finally talked to this girl about what was going on between was. we have been spending alot of time together, and i was getting a bit if a feeling that she might be leading me on. so i confronted her. i meet her and ask what was going on between us, are you going to be friends or are we going to advance our relationship because ive been having a really good time and i was wondering about weather the relationship was going to go further. she said that she "kinda of wants to be friends right now". so ya i guess thats that, theres no hope of anything more then just friends. i waisted alot of money and time hoping that there was a possibility she could be my girlfriend. but i was wrong.

 

what do you think? there isnt any hope for a more then friends relationship with her anymore, is there?

You can't force her to be in a relationship with you if all she sees right now is just friendship. I guess you could ride it out, and hope that she'll change her mind one of these days. But how much patience do you have? OR you could just accept things as they are and actually find someone who wants to reciprocate the same feelings.

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ya, idk. i guess ill see what happenes. and im not trying to force her into a relationship. i dont think anythings going to happen, i waited to long. i should have made my move long ago. i keep hanging out with her, but im not paying for anything for her anymore. i cant, im broke. ive spent over $2000 in the past month on just hanging out with her and stupid ****. ill be fine, im just depressed and kinda of pissed because i awalys seem to get used by everybody i think is my friend. you know what **** it, im not even going to waist my time and money on trying to find a girlfriend anymore. im done, i need to get back to being me, school surfing, and work. self improvement is all that matters anymore.

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ya, idk. i guess ill see what happenes. and im not trying to force her into a relationship. i dont think anythings going to happen, i waited to long. i should have made my move long ago. i keep hanging out with her, but im not paying for anything for her anymore. i cant, im broke. ive spent over $2000 in the past month on just hanging out with her and stupid ****. ill be fine, im just depressed and kinda of pissed because i awalys seem to get used by everybody i think is my friend. you know what **** it, im not even going to waist my time and money on trying to find a girlfriend anymore. im done, i need to get back to being me, school surfing, and work. self improvement is all that matters anymore.

 

As they say, " you can't buy love". Well it's understandable that you're upset, but at least you learned that the next time you're in pursuit of a girl, it's not what's in your wallet that counts.

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If it cost more than $200 next time, go to vegas and get a hooker. ;)

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As they say, " you can't buy love". Well it's understandable that you're upset, but at least you learned that the next time you're in pursuit of a girl, it's not what's in your wallet that counts.

 

 

Again proving your severe lack of knowledge. There is even a damn ad on this very site for a dating site for "WEALTHY OR BEAUTIFUL MALES" and "GORGEOUS AND SEXY GIRLS". Wealth means a ton to women, maybe not to a 14 year old like you.

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Again proving your severe lack of knowledge. There is even a damn ad on this very site for a dating site for "WEALTHY OR BEAUTIFUL MALES" and "GORGEOUS AND SEXY GIRLS". Wealth means a ton to women, maybe not to a 14 year old like you.

 

Wow what the heck is your problem? Not all girls are after a guy's money. Shows how little you know about women.

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Again proving your severe lack of knowledge. There is even a damn ad on this very site for a dating site for "WEALTHY OR BEAUTIFUL MALES" and "GORGEOUS AND SEXY GIRLS". Wealth means a ton to women, maybe not to a 14 year old like you.

You're the 14 year-old.

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ya, idk. i guess ill see what happenes. and im not trying to force her into a relationship. i dont think anythings going to happen, i waited to long. i should have made my move long ago. i keep hanging out with her, but im not paying for anything for her anymore. i cant, im broke. ive spent over $2000 in the past month on just hanging out with her and stupid ****. ill be fine, im just depressed and kinda of pissed because i awalys seem to get used by everybody i think is my friend. you know what **** it, im not even going to waist my time and money on trying to find a girlfriend anymore. im done, i need to get back to being me, school surfing, and work. self improvement is all that matters anymore.

 

Dsim,

 

I've found that younger women tend to believe that a man can hang out with her for extended periods of time and JUST be her friend. They don't see anything other then friendship in that. Its ignorance on their part, and they're completely naive, but I doubt that this girl was attempting to hurt you. She just doesn't know any better. She shouldn't have allowed you to pay for everything when she knew she didn't want more then friendship, but she probably didn't correlate the money with anything other then you being a very generous friend.

 

I think your idea of focusing on yourself is a great idea. Save up your money and spend it on something you really want. And you're absolutely correct in saying you need to make your move early on. I know I tend to classify men into categories rather quickly, and if you hit friend category its harder then hell to break out of that. Not impossible, but tricky.

 

So how are you going to deal with this girl from now on? Will you still be her friend?

 

I also wanted to say Kudos to you for telling her how you feel. That took guts!

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Wow what the heck is your problem? Not all girls are after a guy's money. Shows how little you know about women.

 

Except Almostthere is so bitter that no girl would want him unless it were for his money. Kind of a self-fulfilling prophecy. ;)

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