e.clipse Posted February 25, 2008 Posted February 25, 2008 the dick or the man? © Touche You know, at this point the only redeeming qualities I see in him are a hot body, perfect c*ck, and the ability to cook a perfect piece of salmon. You know, sometimes the really cute ones are the hardest to get over. I mean, physical perfection (including "down there") is my ex's only redeeming quality... and I can't get over HIM. I know it's shallow but all I can think about is how freaking cute our kids would have been. OR: I'm just sitting here reading all of you talking about guys with perfect bodies and realizing that the guy I'm in love with is skeletal and not particularly well-endowed. And I think he's the most beautiful creature on the planet. What's up with that? which is true, this: It's called not being superficial. Some of us fall in love with the whole man..not just a body and dick. or this: Could be that some of us idolize the body and the dick after we fall in love with the whole man. I don't know. so . . . Which came first...the dick or the man? of the one you love, do you (particularly) love them because their physical attributes are exactly what you want? or is that is their physical attributes became exactly what you want, after you fell in love? did you love the man or the penis first? if you loved the penis first and then the man, does that make you shallow? and if you loved the man first and then the penis, does that make you a romantic? (i think this is the first time i ever write the P word. )
Touche Posted February 25, 2008 Posted February 25, 2008 Obviously, for me, man first, then penis. But the penis made me love the man even more!
melodymatters Posted February 25, 2008 Posted February 25, 2008 LOL e.clipse ! Speaking for myself, I don't get to see the PENIS or get to know the "WHOLE MAN" until I at least find him attractive and interesting enough to start with. Meaning, somone could be the next jesus, but if he isn't attractive to me, it will not get to the points above. So, in order : 1) Hmmm... he's kinda cute, nice cheekbones 2) First date. Wow, he's funny and interesting ! 3) we are dating and decide to be monogomous. 4) THEN we get to see how magical the peni is or is not.
AdrianaLima Posted February 25, 2008 Posted February 25, 2008 I fell in love with my man first and then the penis. We got to know one another for quite some time, then we became intimate with eachother. And the penis was worth the wait.LOL!!
Star Gazer Posted February 25, 2008 Posted February 25, 2008 When coming around a corner, the d*ck comes first.
spookie Posted February 25, 2008 Posted February 25, 2008 (edited) I really don't know. Probably it's a combo of the two. Or a progression like mm's: 1) Hmmm... he's kinda cute, nice cheekbones 2) First date. Wow, he's funny and interesting ! 3) we are dating and decide to be monogomous. 4) THEN we get to see how magical the peni is or is not. Edit: I think for me, I love(d) my ex's cuteness ON HIM. If it was just some random guy who looked exactly like my ex, I probably wouldn't find him attractive. So, the man comes before the dick, but the dick probably qualifies the man to cum at all. So like MM said. Edited February 25, 2008 by spookie
ash519 Posted February 27, 2008 Posted February 27, 2008 My last bf I wasnt all that attracted to the first 2 years I knew him. I was good friends with him. Then I slowly fell completely in love with him and only then found him attractive. So, it started the man, and then the penis. The guy I am casually seeing now started physical and the rest followed.
Meaplus3 Posted February 28, 2008 Posted February 28, 2008 the dick or the man? © Touche OR: which is true, this: or this: so . . . of the one you love, do you (particularly) love them because their physical attributes are exactly what you want? or is that is their physical attributes became exactly what you want, after you fell in love? did you love the man or the penis first? if you loved the penis first and then the man, does that make you shallow? and if you loved the man first and then the penis, does that make you a romantic? (i think this is the first time i ever write the P word. ) The "P" ! Perhap's that's the mistake I made. AP:)
Trialbyfire Posted February 28, 2008 Posted February 28, 2008 How can anyone fall for a dick? I recommend if you do, you might want to stay away from the toy shop. It could get obsessive. Overall, initial cursory attraction on first meet which includes physical and mental attraction. Can he string together more than three words? If so, the three words must not be him stuttering "Hu..hu...hi". Lots of time spent getting to know him, where he has to impress the hell out of me with the ability to be a funny and interesting conversationalist. It goes on and on from there until we finally enter the penile stage.
Blue Eyed Brain Posted February 28, 2008 Posted February 28, 2008 Always love the man before the penis.
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