Broken-girlxo Posted February 25, 2008 Posted February 25, 2008 I've been broken up from my ex for a while now. But everytime he gets a new girlfriend, speaks to a girl or talks about an ex i just click and i feel furious and jealous about it! I don't show it, but i can't stop myself from feeling like this, i don't even get jealous about my new boyfriends exes or anything, just my ex. How can i put my mind at rest and accept he's not doing nothing wrong, since we have broke up!
tonyeltiger Posted February 25, 2008 Posted February 25, 2008 ... accept he's not doing nothing wrong, since we have broke up! I think this says it all. You have obviously made the choice to also try out new people, so just repeat to yourself that he is simply doing the same thing. If he is doing it on purpose to egg you on, then you can feel hurt. But in that case I would not put myself in a position where he could speak to me (e.g. don't hang out with him). It seems like you have moved on with your love life as well, so just reiterate to yourself that he is allowed to do the same. I would also examine yourself in this case. Why are you jealous when he mentions these other girls? It seems to me that although you have moved on to other people, you still may have unresolved feelings towards your Ex. I would tell him if that is the case. Not that you are jealous and angry, but that you still have feelings for him. I know that I would love my Ex to tell me that. But then again, he may have truly moved on. In either case, I wish you luck! Break-ups are always emotionally messy!
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