bubbles83 Posted February 24, 2008 Posted February 24, 2008 i need someone or anyone to help..... i split from my bf of almost a year about 4 days ago we had been together when we were kids bout 10 years ago... he has a kid whom he is not gettin to see but it had major effects on our relationship he said i was getting too needy. so i moved out of our house and moved back in with rents altho we are still a couple.. and have seen him a few times.... but i want him back properly!!!! i have never been this cut up about a relationship and im **** at playing games!!!!
carhill Posted February 24, 2008 Posted February 24, 2008 Translation : Boyfriend has stress from child he's not getting to see and says you're "too needy" You were living with him at the time in "our house" but have moved back in with your parents.You want to get back together, are devastated and don't wish to play any games. Advice: Cool off. You've known him for a long time. He's not going anywhere and it sounds like he has a lot on him mind (as a parent). How old are you and he?
Author bubbles83 Posted February 24, 2008 Author Posted February 24, 2008 i am 24 he is 27 i just cant give up on us??? i hate the way i feel and blub at the drop of a hat... thanks for the translation. xxx
carhill Posted February 24, 2008 Posted February 24, 2008 No, no, don't "give up". Sometimes telling a person you love them and want them to have the space they need for their own issues is how you stay in the relationship. How old is his child? Absent his comments about your "neediness" and his stress about his child, would you say the relationship has been a fulfilling one for both of you? Note I'm including him here....what have you heard from him? Has he been open in the past about his feelings for you? Tell Dr. Ruth
Author bubbles83 Posted February 24, 2008 Author Posted February 24, 2008 he has always been open about his feelings... and when his ex told him he couldnt see his 4 year old boy whilst i was in the house he never asked me to move out... our relationship was good although we spent loads of time together... we fought but always over minor things...we have been to the gym together and have hd contact thru txt and im's... most advice on here says do no contact but as we are still a couple living apart i don think it's approraite.....bloody men....
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