Joeus79 Posted February 24, 2008 Posted February 24, 2008 What does it mean when an ex gets a friend to tell me how she feels... she won't talk to me... and i gave up... went into NC.... trying to move on, but we now have to work together and there is no choice in the matter..... i contacted her a month ago saying i would be working with her again in the office due to a new contract.... I just said we should draw a line under it... and that i now agree with her.... she never replied. So i just got on with, but now her friend (who works there too) has called me, and said that i was out of order with the things i said, and i agreed... but she really had a go.... its like my ex an her friend are bringing it up again!!!! We have never spoken, and she dumped me by a text.... i said some horrible things, and was upset, but i apologized.... it was a long time ago... of course i miss her in a way..... but she got her friend to tell me she just wants it to be civil between us.... why can't she do that herself?????? We're in our late twenties... not kids.......
Author Joeus79 Posted February 24, 2008 Author Posted February 24, 2008 so what do you think i should do...... her friend is in fact my superior.... and a lot of people have said how bad it was that she mentioned it.....
ibitealil Posted February 24, 2008 Posted February 24, 2008 if her friend is your superior why dont you talk to her and ask her not to let you work with your ex? Clearly your ex is not cool with the whole situation if shes not directly talking to you..plus u also still miss her until now so things might get pretty ugly
Author Joeus79 Posted February 24, 2008 Author Posted February 24, 2008 we have to work together..... shame but its true..... not trying to stalk.... just don't have another option..... its odd she can't talk to me herself if she wants boundaries......
ibitealil Posted February 24, 2008 Posted February 24, 2008 i know :-) u just want to move on and shes acting like that...as far as im a girl myself i block my ex or avoid only in case im still somehow affected by his presence ..i would talk to him normally if i felt indifferent about him...i guess u should try to be as cool as possible in that case...dont try to analyse her and her actions...good luck!
Author Joeus79 Posted February 24, 2008 Author Posted February 24, 2008 thank you.... good luck with you.....
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