middlepath Posted February 24, 2008 Posted February 24, 2008 What to do when someone you once were so deeply in love with, switches gears, suddenly bolts-emotionally-with no real explanation-after you move to a new city to be with them...traumatized, you take the time to heal....months go by and then you see them, make the mistake of hooking up with them, and then they pull some stuff out about it being about closure....you then tell them exactly how lame that makes you feel- they don't take responsibility for their actions, and instead try and blame you for their recent bad luck!-and suggest that perhaps it may be some kind of witchcraft you've been practicing.....this is what i am dealing with. trying to still be loving, compassionate and kind-is soooo difficult with some people. we are in the same circle of friends and i recently flipped out on him, after trying to be patient and understanding-i just had my limits. not sure how to navigate through this in order to keep my own boundaries in tact......help!
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