Spidr Posted February 24, 2008 Posted February 24, 2008 Hey...its me again. Last Friday my girl and i were discussing a little more about our future, and it turned out to be that she was certain that she wants to live in my country. She told me that she started to look into things that need to be done for this to happen. Like job permits and stuff like that. She was in a 100% good mood. She said that it will be better for us since I already have a busisness here and becuase her type of work is better in my country too. We talked all night about it and other things. Re-assuring me that she is totaly in love with me. Next day we met online again, but she acted really different.she was giving very short replies or nothing at all.She seemed to be very nervous. At first i asked her whats wrong and she said that she is ok. But then she said that her haircut that she had to have in the morning turned out to be very bad and her computer was giving her trouble, especially msn (thats true becuase nothing was working right, even on mine,sometimes it was just disconecting, lag). Suddenly she was disconnected without saying anything. Of course i got really worried. But then I recieved a phone call and she told me that msn disconneted snd she don't feel like trying to fix the problem that night she had a very big headache and a very bad mood.Which caused this type of conversation to happen. She was cutting short in our conversation so that she will not say anything which will hurt me. Her haircut and her messed up computer was making it even worse. She assured me that nothing had to do with me.And i am 100% positive that this is true. Maybe I think that she is on her period... I experienced bad moods in ladies before, but in an LDR not. Does this normally happen? How is it best to handle this situation when it happen?
HisLove Posted February 24, 2008 Posted February 24, 2008 Hi Spidr - yes these bad moods happen. Especially with PMS. So not only may her hormones be driving her crazy, she hates the haircut when she looks in the mirror, and msn is not cooperating. Enough to put anybody in a crappy mood. She's tried to keep communicating with you...so don't worry about it being anything about you. For example. How things can be misunderstood. Yesterday my man texts me that he is back in his first city on his journey home. Last time he was there, he had minutes before he had to change flights etc, so this time I didn't respond - I didn't want to distract him. In his text, he said 'chat later'. Ok I thought, that's what we'll do. I was thrilled to hear from him. Now I've had some major dramas over the past few days, my daughter was in a car wreck and her car is totalled. So we've been busy with that. She doesn't have a car so I've been running her around again. Due to the lack of sleep (on the night of the accident, I didn't get to bed until 3.30am and went to work that same day for a full day). On the day he got home, he got on msn. Right BEFORE he signed in, my daughter's father was at the front door to try and help us with the car wreck. My man was saying hello on msn and I wasn't replying. (I wasn 't even at the computer,I was downstairs). Eventually when I came back to the computer, we did catch up. He was tired because of all the travelling and we agreed to catch up later. I too went to bed at that time as I was exhausted. 5 hours later I wake up. He's been waiting on msn and I'm not there. I accidentally rip out all the phone lines etc and it won't reconnect. In the meantime I have to drive my daughter to her friend's house. I send him a text to explain. He's too tired to wait and says he will wait a little while until I get back home. As I'm pulling into the driveway, he texts he's way too tired and going to bed. Good nite etc. So we still haven't caught up yet. Life just happens. Nobody's fault. Take a deep breath. I'm sure she'll be fine shortly.
Author Spidr Posted February 24, 2008 Author Posted February 24, 2008 Thanks HisLove. Yes things do happen. And they always seem to happen in the worst times. Sometimes I worry too much. I hope you have a good and happy chat with you man You have always been good help
Space Marine Posted February 24, 2008 Posted February 24, 2008 A valued friend recently reminded me of the old adage "Just go with the flow", and though it is remarkably old advice, maybe it's not a bad idea right now... Then again, I just realized that maybe "Go with the flow" was not the best phrase to use if you suspect her of PMS'ing. I stand by my convictions! Ignore the puns!
Author Spidr Posted February 24, 2008 Author Posted February 24, 2008 Everything is ok i am talking to her now...and she apologized for being that way thankkksss
TMichaels Posted February 24, 2008 Posted February 24, 2008 Spidr, I think it was John Lennon who once said: "Life is what happens when we're making other plans." I don't know how many times I've thought of that notion when things haven't gone "according to plan." It brings a smile to my face every time. Feel free to borrow it any time you like. Glad to hear things worked out with you and your girl in the end. Keep up the faith! Best, TMichaels
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