lino Posted February 27, 2008 Posted February 27, 2008 I have a strange list of things I look for in a guy: Someone who doesn't cheat #1. ummm someone who isn't abusive, physically or verbally or emotionally. Someone I'm physically attracted to, if I'm honest I have to admit I'd much prefer the good looking guy vs someone less attractive. A guy who can support himself financially (I had to support my ex and I can't mentally deal with supporting anyone else in the future anymore. I fully support myself but I expect the guy to do the same.) Other than that someone who is honest and doesn't tell lies. Someone who is emotionally stable (no severe mental illnesses). Someone who I find charming and funny. Someone who doesn't get lap dances at strip clubs (this one really bugs me and could be a deal breaker). Someone who hasn't been with prostitutes in the past (my ex had been with some and it bothered me). Also someone who hasn't had too many sexual partners in the past. I accept the fact now that the guys I will be meeting in my age range will have had some experiences under their belt but I prefer someone without a huge amount of sexual partners in the past, for some reason it bothers me. Also, someone who will accept me the way I am and not expect me to get plastic surgery, bigger boob, fix this or that about myself and won't compare me to other females etc. Also someone who is mature, considerate and thoughtful. Someone that won't betray me, flirt too much with other women, take other women out, be intimate with other women etc Also someone who is respectful and won't treat me like SHI* and has some semblance of respect for my family (unlike my ex who likes to disrespect them constantly) I don't get along with all members of my family but it bothers me when my ex bf feels like he can insult them... I also need to feel attraction and sexual chemistry... and we have to be compatible. I think all of that is completely reasonable & not strange at all
StrawberryLime Posted February 27, 2008 Posted February 27, 2008 All people are equally likely to cheat. That's the way of the world. Some attractive people might not LIKE all the attention because they think the women are too agressive. Then again, some of those attractive people may just look and act like playboys and be full of themselves, in which case, you don't want him anyway. But less attractive people can be the same way.
twice_shy Posted February 27, 2008 Posted February 27, 2008 Do you think it is probable that extremely good looking guys who are "in demand" so to speak, for example, guys that all the women are crazy for or have a lot of women chasing them are more likely to cheat? . you got it. Now I think I am a good looking guy, but I'm no Brad Pitt, and I have never cheated. But you said "extremely good looking guys", so I'd say yes, those types are gonna be more likely to cheat. But let me qualify that. An "extremely good looking guy" that is full of himself, conceited, and arrogant. There are really good looking guys that are none of those, but I think they are few and far between.
twice_shy Posted February 27, 2008 Posted February 27, 2008 This is true, but imagine this scenario. A good looking guys has 10 women chase him and some of these women are AGGRESSIVE and SLUTTY and all over him and would do anything to get him etc. Don't you think he would have MUCH more temptations vs an ugly guy that no one comes up to? Exactly! Thats what it boils down to.
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