khadafy13 Posted February 23, 2008 Posted February 23, 2008 this is a mess...i dont know where to star..i meet this girl about 2 years ago at my moms work, so that means i have to see her cause she takes care of my baby girl (its a childcare) . i show this girl my heart n my soul..everything that i know a women needs, i was rise for a woman n my fam its like 85% womens..i know she loves e n i lover..anyways she has a kid 4 years old from another relationship...the guy didnt care about his son for that period of time n now he apears from out of the blue n wants to b part of his life now..i know every father deserves the right to know his son but i know something its not right..she is crazy about her son to the point that its difficult to understand that this guy maybe wants to take away his son. they been marry for that period of time now they have the divorce papers...anyways she told m that she loves me crying in pain but she needs space to deal with the situation..nobody show that girl what i been showing her for a 2 year period n now she wants to do this. i been taking care of her n her son for that period of time. i know that been in this position is crazy. i told her that if shes thinking about going back to him just tell me...or if m kind of a backup plan...whatever i just need some asnswer...now the guy its moving to florida so he can be closer to his son..i know that he doesnt care about his son, hes just trying to take advantage of the situation. cause i know he just want a place to stay n a bed to sleep..n me what about all the sacrifice all my time all the tears all my pain...she tells me that she doent love him, but its too difficult for me to understand that. she doesnt call or say nothing i even try not to see her .m just looking for some comfort or something...i know shes not that great i know she has lots of issues...but i accepter like that n i always try to make her life easier..it gets more complicated than that. i know shes trying that her son knows his father, that shes trying to do the right thing n i have not problem wit that..all i want for her its give me my position for the things i show her..i know onl time will tell but now i just need somebody to talk to, somebody to comfort me...thanks..this is feels good
carhill Posted February 23, 2008 Posted February 23, 2008 Great example of how guys have and invest emotions in relationships or their potential... Hmmm... Can you change child care providers? If yes, I would do this and go NC. A woman who can't set boundaries regarding a past relationship isn't ready to have one with someone like you. Actually, today, you helped me. Thanks for that Hang around. You'll get plenty of support (and likely some straight advice)...
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