smileinyoursleep08 Posted February 23, 2008 Posted February 23, 2008 Hi, just last week my bf dumped me and he said that it was best for both of us and that we just dont get along. Im 18 and we dated for 2 years and a half,.... this is really hard for me and when i actually got to talk to him,(he ignores me at school and online) he said that its just easier to ignore me and his feelsings.... and he said that he wants to be friends but i dont think we can be friends if he does not talk to me and ignores me, not only that but it hurts me 2.... i went from knowing everthing about him to feeling like im not in his life anymore.. and i asked him to not date anyone tell i graduate and move and he said k.... what do u think, em i the bad person and whats going on with him.... i dont understand y guys cant deal with their feelings.... and the break up was random 2, i just dont understand how i need time to get over this and he just shrugs it off like," it didnt work out but oh well"...he said that he does not want to have any relationships for awhile or nothing serious like what we had i guess,... i just feel like an outsider now becuase my life was him and i hung out with his friends and now when i sit with em at lunch they dont talk to me and he cant even look at me,... and i miss how much fun we use to have... when they go on an adventure or something,... im not invited and i miss that and i feel left out.. i never cheated on him,.. i gave him everything if i could aford it, a shoulder to cry on and a place to live,... then he treats me like this... idk, what do u think? lol just needed to vent..
amymarieca Posted February 23, 2008 Posted February 23, 2008 Hi, just last week my bf dumped me and he said that it was best for both of us and that we just dont get along. Im 18 and we dated for 2 years and a half,.... this is really hard for me and when i actually got to talk to him,(he ignores me at school and online) he said that its just easier to ignore me and his feelsings.... and he said that he wants to be friends but i dont think we can be friends if he does not talk to me and ignores me, not only that but it hurts me 2.... i went from knowing everthing about him to feeling like im not in his life anymore.. and i asked him to not date anyone tell i graduate and move and he said k.... what do u think, em i the bad person and whats going on with him.... i dont understand y guys cant deal with their feelings.... and the break up was random 2, i just dont understand how i need time to get over this and he just shrugs it off like," it didnt work out but oh well"...he said that he does not want to have any relationships for awhile or nothing serious like what we had i guess,... i just feel like an outsider now becuase my life was him and i hung out with his friends and now when i sit with em at lunch they dont talk to me and he cant even look at me,... and i miss how much fun we use to have... when they go on an adventure or something,... im not invited and i miss that and i feel left out.. i never cheated on him,.. i gave him everything if i could aford it, a shoulder to cry on and a place to live,... then he treats me like this... idk, what do u think? lol just needed to vent.. First off, I am really sorry to hear about what happened. I know how hard it is to have someone break your heart. I know you may not see it this way now, but when you get to be a little older, you won't look at this the same way. There is a whole other world out there for you to experience. Why would you want to do it with the same person you were dating since you were 16? I made a mistake of dating someone I met when I was 18 for 8.5 years. I never really got to play the field. Don't get trapped in serious relationships when you are young. You will only regret it later.
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