Elilmomma Posted February 23, 2008 Posted February 23, 2008 My hubby had an affair a little over a month ago and now he has a habbit of not coming home from work for like four hours. and eveytime I say aomehting he gets mad that I am questioning him, he also forgets his cell phone at home so I can't call him. I mean what the hell am I suppose to think?Not only that but Wednesday was my b-day and I didn't get so much as a happy birthday from him.. He knows I am gonna be upset but it's like he does not care. I don't know what to do? I am an emotional wreck right now and he's not making me feel secure at all
carhill Posted February 23, 2008 Posted February 23, 2008 He's already checked out. Not to give your wife a BD card (if he did in the past) is a blatant sign, regardless of the validity or not of an affair. Simple rule: The person who cares the least has the most control. I'd have to look through your posting history to give more specific opinions... Sorry about the BD thing...that sucks
Mr. Lucky Posted February 23, 2008 Posted February 23, 2008 He's already checked out. Not to give your wife a BD card (if he did in the past) is a blatant sign, regardless of the validity or not of an affair. Boy, I'd have to agree. If the cheating wasn't a clear message, his conduct doesn't seem to leave much doubt. I'd think your choices were either MC or separation. Not sure what either one of you are getting from the marriage right now... Mr. Lucky
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