almosthere Posted February 22, 2008 Posted February 22, 2008 My crushes best friend told me just now, on IM, that she said that its OK to ask her friend out, but also said that if she had to guess she would say that my crush would say no. She mentioned that my crush likes some guy from another school, they arent dating or anything. Next time she is on IM, I dont care how much of a pansy it makes me, I am just going to ask her. Any help on how to do this considering the circumstances is highly appreciated, I will let you know once I do it how it turns out...I feel sick...
Cherry Blossom 35 Posted February 22, 2008 Posted February 22, 2008 Ask her out! Girls like guys who are confident and are willing to put themselves on the line a little bit. Confidence is hot. What's the worst that can happen? She says no? You will live, I promise! There is ALWAYS another person. Always! Go for it!
Author almosthere Posted February 22, 2008 Author Posted February 22, 2008 Ask her out! Girls like guys who are confident and are willing to put themselves on the line a little bit. Confidence is hot. What's the worst that can happen? She says no? You will live, I promise! There is ALWAYS another person. Always! Go for it! Oh I know, next time she gets on IM I am going to. Its just what to say I guess is what the current issue is...
Phateless Posted February 23, 2008 Posted February 23, 2008 don't do it on im. hang out in person and ask her, or make a move
xpaperxcutx Posted February 23, 2008 Posted February 23, 2008 don't do it on im. hang out in person and ask her, or make a move I agree with Phateless, don't do on AIM. If you truly like someone, asking them out in person gives it a more personal feel to it. IF you see her face to face, you can always gauge a sense of emotion out her whether she likes you or not. Doing it over Aim doesn't necessarily mean that she'll give you a straight answer. Don't give her time to think for one.
giro Posted February 23, 2008 Posted February 23, 2008 here's a little quote: "(1) take any hand, left or right, and hold it in front of you (2) reach between you legs and grab, those are your balls (3) use 'em!" dont IM apply alcohol as needed do it QUICK and smooth (especially if you're not alone) DON'T PLAN IT, MUST BE SPONTANEOUS
Author almosthere Posted February 23, 2008 Author Posted February 23, 2008 There is never a good opportunity in person (at school or otherwise.) I am calling her tommorow. Calling is very acceptable, correct?
xpaperxcutx Posted February 23, 2008 Posted February 23, 2008 You're a rather impatient aren't you? First, learn to have some composure. Don't charge into the unknown without first being prepared. At the very least, try it for another day and see whether you can coincidentally bump into her in the hallways. Or else you're just marking yourself too obvious to her.
Author almosthere Posted February 23, 2008 Author Posted February 23, 2008 You're a rather impatient aren't you? First, learn to have some composure. Don't charge into the unknown without first being prepared. At the very least, try it for another day and see whether you can coincidentally bump into her in the hallways. Or else you're just marking yourself too obvious to her. Trust me, I can guarantee that there will not be a good opportunity in school. I am going to call her tommorow, I will ask her "Hey ---, its --- ----------, I just wanted to see if you would like to go to a 76ers game with me." After that I will just go with whatever. If she does say no I will just say "Dammit, alright, see you Monday!" I think thats a pretty good gameplan assuming I execute.
xpaperxcutx Posted February 23, 2008 Posted February 23, 2008 Trust me, I can guarantee that there will not be a good opportunity in school. I am going to call her tommorow, I will ask her "Hey ---, its --- ----------, I just wanted to see if you would like to go to a 76ers game with me." After that I will just go with whatever. If she does say no I will just say "Dammit, alright, see you Monday!" I think thats a pretty good gameplan assuming I execute. Okay well I'm guess you got a game plan figured out (no pun intended). Go with what you've got then.
giro Posted February 23, 2008 Posted February 23, 2008 (edited) if i were you i wouldn't plan it out word for word like that, or even a date and time when you're gonna call... best of luck btw if she says yes i got the smoothest fool proof move you can make Edited February 23, 2008 by giro
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