salopian71 Posted February 22, 2008 Posted February 22, 2008 Hi me and my ex broke up last week after 3 years, he is very much a single man and has difficulty with commitment of any kind but he tells me that he loves me but he just cant cope with being in a full time relationship, anyway we have a weekend away booked at the beiginning of next month and he has just asked if i still want to go with him, part of me wants to go but i am scared it will prolong the pain i am feeling despite knowing that the split is for the best in the long run but part of me wants to go and show him how confident i can be and what he is missing out on, anyone got any advise?
Tripper Posted February 22, 2008 Posted February 22, 2008 What's in it for you? Unless he's taking you to Paris to stay at the George V hotel for a fabulous weekend, you allow him to redefine your relationship into one where you are still available but on his terms. Specifically without commitment. What are you going to talk about?? The past? It's gone. The present?? It sucks. The future?? There isn't one with him. And you'll end up having "break up sex" and feel crappy in the end. You are worth more than this. Treat yourself better; go for a weekend away, but go on your own.
sedgwick Posted February 22, 2008 Posted February 22, 2008 Yup, thirded. Please please consider using periods instead of writing paragraph-long sentences! It really helps those reading what you write.
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