jam88 Posted February 22, 2008 Posted February 22, 2008 (edited) Being inexperienced i cant decipher if this girl likes me or not.. the first time i met this girl she asked a few general questions and gave me a new work hat, she seemed a really nice girl by coincidence i was placed on a shift the same as hers a week later and we spoke lots on that shift. We spoke about the smallest things ever and the convo really did flow.. When she found out my b-day was the same as her best friends she jokingly said "wow maybe thats a sign we will get on really well"... later she randomly spoke to me again saying "she rejected a guy at work who tried to ask her out".. this kinda put me off asking her out but o well.. we ended up talking alot again and something we stuck in the oven had burnt we had totally lost track of time lol. so then we both stood by the oven and cooked another and spoke even more lol. later one worker spilt cream everywhere and on my coat, i put on the coat and the girl i like came over to me n started wiping it off my coat and then said "i cant be seen with u when u have cream all over u".. funnily enough tho she wiped alot off too. i also remember her asking how do i get home and stuff. but the recent time we met again but this time was meeting eachother within the space of 15 minutes.. i was about to leave work coz my co-worker said i could leave but just as i was about to go.. the girl i like came in and she called me into the back.. and she gave me a sweet. so we spoke alittle then another co-worker told me to take the trash out, she said someone needs to take it with me.. and the girl i like said "i will" so she came with me and as we were taking the trash out she goes "do u like drum and base music" and i went "yea" and she was like "i love it".. it was if she was reading my hobbies off my facebook or something lol. again she said "we have alot in common, i think we will get on great!" we got back and she went "that was the best part of the night" back inside she goes "i was thinking of organising a works do thing where we all go out for a drink like next monday or something".. and i was like yea cool that sounds great. she then said "do you have facebook? if u do please add me on there and i'll give you my number".. i was shocked and thought she had given her number away quite easily to me... but i dont know if this is her interested or being friendly.. lets put it this way.. she first mentioned arranging this outing when she saw me so does that prove she only arranged it so she could see 'me' outside of work or was it just a casual thing to set up? i added her to facebook but neither of us really has said anything to one another so i dunno what to think.. but i will see her again tomorow at work.. thanks for any help/advice u can give Edited February 22, 2008 by jam88
Blue Eyed Brain Posted February 22, 2008 Posted February 22, 2008 You are over thinking this. Yes, she likes you and is giving you (non) subtle hints. Just keep going at the pace you are and when you have the confidence and you see a chance to ask her out or something, then do it. The more you think about the deeper you will get and if she rejects you, the harder you will fall. Just ask her when you are ready..... Good Luck.
Lucasarts Posted February 22, 2008 Posted February 22, 2008 she likes you a lot and she's making it really obvious. Ask her out at your own risk. Business and pleasure do not mix they say. . . but hell, that doesn't mean its not worth it
xpaperxcutx Posted February 22, 2008 Posted February 22, 2008 She's definitely flirting with you. IF you see any potentials of being with her, go for it. But if you only see her as a one time date, take caution. She knows where you work.
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