giro Posted February 21, 2008 Posted February 21, 2008 i asked this girl out a while ago and i've never dated anyone like her... we're both pretty smart, we get along really well and there's no doubt in my mind she likes me, unfortunately i asked her out about a week ago,we've been really hitting it off and planning "dates" for the past 2 months, she was willing to skip a friends Bday party to go with me but due to various reasons she's not allowed out... blah blah blah anyways she doesn't really hang out with guys, i mean ya she talks to them and all but it's usually some random dude at a party, no BFs either, so im some sort of exceptions. the thing is she's a lot more social than me, her life is homework and then going out with her girlfriends. i'd love to be in that mix somewhere but i dont want to impose and make her feel confined, nor do i want to make her think i dont like her. i dono if it's fine to just wait on her to call/approach me, or maybe on the rare occasion when i see her at lunch just join up with her and her friends, most school nights she's home so maybe call her more than once a week. im not a big fan of msn and all that stuff so we dont ever talk there. note: i've never told her i like her and she never told me, it's sort of understood...
xpaperxcutx Posted February 21, 2008 Posted February 21, 2008 Well if you like her, you have to be the one to initiate contact. It's okay to not call her, since as you said, she's busy with homework. It's nice to ask her sometimes how's she's doing, to let her know that you're in her life, but not forcefully intruding into it. If you guys don't talk on the phone or im each other, you could text her to say hi once a while, provided that she has a text plan as constant texting could rack up a bill ( i know what that's like). And you don't need to tell her you like her, that would come on too strong. Sometimes a woman can sense a man likes her base on how attention she's been given. She has her intuitions working for her. And if anything, you could always ask her to go enjoy a movie or something between the two of two during the weekends in which she'll be free. Good luck.
Author giro Posted February 23, 2008 Author Posted February 23, 2008 thanks and i figure if she really likes me (which is what counts) there's room for error
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