JohnDoe200Three Posted February 21, 2008 Posted February 21, 2008 Ok so ive been with the same girl for the last 8 months. We are both in our twenties. I had recently come back from a military deployment and saw her a few times before i left for leave which was about a week. She couldnt come with me because of work and some other issues. While i talked to her while i was gone everything seemed ok. Then the day i came back we went out and saw a movie and that night she was going out for a friends birthday. She said they were going to drink at a few places and that was fine with me i trust her even though she doesnt think so. Anyways before i dropped her off she said jokingly that id prlly get some dumb drunk text messages later on in the night. I laughed and said that was fine. Well come later on that night i did get a text message saying she thinks we should break up and to not try and call her cause she wont answer her phone. I think her friends are putting things in her head. Its either that or shes got another guy now. Thats what i think at least. I dont think it is another guy though. Now its 3 or 4 days later i tried texting her once after this happened and got no response. Id really like to talk to her to see what is going on. I dunno what to do.....maybe i should just show up at her house. Maybe i should wait it out a little longer. I really dunno what to do, but i know one thing for sure i really dont wanna lose her. I care about her way to much. Any opinions or advice would be appreciated.
EYECANDY000 Posted February 21, 2008 Posted February 21, 2008 It seems like she was using the whole " if I get drunk and text you something crazy" as an excuse. Seems like it was premediatated . I think she has moved on and didnt have the courage to tell you. I would say that you need to dump this girl, but you shouldnt do it before you get answers. I am all about closures, and not knowing why something didnt work out is the hardest thing to cope with. But seems like while you were away she was enjoying the single life!
Krytie TV Posted February 22, 2008 Posted February 22, 2008 You set yourself for bad things if you assume that she's only doing this because her friends "put stuff in her head". This was premeditated, and if her friends had anything to do with it, she owns that completely.
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