aengel_eyez Posted February 21, 2008 Posted February 21, 2008 SORRY ITS SO LONG! :(:(Okay so i am 21 years old. I need some advice, should i stay with my boyfriend or not. Well we have a two year old daughter together who is my world i would do anything for her. Well anyway my boyfriend and i have been together for about four years, on and off. We have broken up 3 times. I have always wanted him in my life but lately im not so sure what to do anymore. Since he has been back with me, oh yeah he came back in july after being with his ex girlfriend for a month, he has had one job. That was only for a month. Yeah every time we have broken up he has gone back to his ex who by the way is a slut, really she is. I work about 32 hours a week and walk to and from work from work in the snow. He doesnt clean the house and he loves to play WOW online all the time. his ex best friend told me that he used to cheat on me. well i was talking to his friend as a friend and i didnt tell him becasue i know he would think something was going on but nothing happend because i am not sluty. but anyway he found out and almost left i kinda wanteds him to but then something happend i wanted him to stay. I didnt want him to for about an hour then bam i wanted him to stay. then when i go to work i think i hate him for not doing anything. he gets mad when i go to my moms house once a week. he saysi should spend my one day off with him. HELLO you are at home everyday all day and sleep until noon:rolleyes: or later and get mad if i try to wake you up b4 that! I dont understand why i cant tell what i want to do it makes me crazy. i dont know if i really love him or i am afraid of being lonely and staying with him for my daughter. I have recently started to like someone i work with too, i get all flusteredaround him:love:. i think that should help me but i dont know what my problem is. I love being at work even though i miss my baby girl but i feel like me again. I am a totaly differnt person at work. HELP ME PLEASE!!!!!!!!!! Sorry if this was written all crazy! HELP!!!:(
life_sucks Posted February 21, 2008 Posted February 21, 2008 if you dont know if you love him,then surely you dont?? have you told him you dont know if you love him or not?no harm meant here,but i think he's the one you need to be tellin this too. take care...
amaysngrace Posted February 21, 2008 Posted February 21, 2008 It sounds like you have a bad relationship. You guys maybe just need a break and to live apart for a while. If it's meant to be it will happen. Staying with someone you don't even love just because you have a baby with them is bass-ackwards in my opinion. That can be damaging to the child and their future relationships by thinking that's normal.
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