fyrmansgurl Posted February 21, 2008 Posted February 21, 2008 hi everyone, the problem is, i have found out about a month ago through my daughter's father that my ex paul which i havent seen in over a year is moving back to town in the spring. (my ex is good friends with my daughter's father's best friend). about 2 weeks ago my daughter came home with a dvd, so i asked her who gave her that, she said paul....then she said paul said he is gonna come over and see us at our house.....then she also proceeds to tell me that paul said he loves you mommy and he loves me....ok where im up in arms about is my daughter is 4yrs old....do i believe her or what.....the second thing is if he is moving back, im bound to run into him....im in a wonderful healthy happy relationship now and i am just afraid that paul might try something....im not a psychologist, but im sure he was suffering from some sort of psychological problem or p.t.s.d.(he is a marine)(he could be sweet one moment then the drill sargent from hell the next) im really not sure how to tell my boyfriend everything or if i should tell him anything at all? please if anyone has any advice that would be great:)
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