SarahT111 Posted February 21, 2008 Posted February 21, 2008 Well, I certainly did none of that crap to my ex at the time, but I still got what I deserved. I had a very tough time leaving that woman because she was such a strong and beautiful person, but she wanted things that I didn't think that I could provide for her. Once I fully understood what I had lost, it was too late and she simply wasn't in love with me anymore. I never did anything bad to her other than letting her down and breaking her heart. As hard as it was at the time, I figured that asking her back twice was enough and I had to let her go. I was a mess for at least a year and my next relationship was a friggin joke. The woman that I left however, never wished me harm or pain, but if she had any hurt pride that needed redemption - I certainly provided that. All I can say to you is this... I am not sure if he will ever try to get you back, but if you really want it to hurt (and, if he were a great guy like me and not a jerk - eventually help ), be sure to be as nice as humanly possible about it. Let him truly see what he is missing. Show him a woman so beautiful that he would realize that he doesn't even stand a chance of getting someone like you. This woman did that to me with style and class (in her case, she sincerely loves me as a friend and did not want to hurt me, but suit your own purpose) and I can say, there is no way on earth she could have hurt me more Anybody that rubs it in after they break up with you already has some seriously bad karma coming their way - traffic will probably get to this a-hole before you even get a swing at him! Thanks!! Your a legend! If he were to ever get in contact I would probably go absoluty nuts at him and scream and yell etc. But now I would think twice and as much as I dont want to I would be as nice as possible. I am waiting for this bad Karma to get him although it seems to be taking a while!!!!
daphne Posted February 22, 2008 Posted February 22, 2008 Anguished, I think women (generally) tend to put a lot more thought into breakups than men. Usually, we break up with a guy who didn't treat us right, or may not be right for us in the long run. In those circumstances, I can't say that there'll be a lot of regret. That's what men see when they don't understand how it can be so final for many women. However, if she thought the grass was greener and took a really good guy for granted, she'll probably regret it at some point down the road. There are a lot of bad eggs out there, and you remember the one that treated you well (as long as there was attraction and a connection.)
daphne Posted February 22, 2008 Posted February 22, 2008 Then I punched him in the throat. It was pretty satisfying. You are my hero.
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