ddkeifo Posted February 20, 2008 Posted February 20, 2008 (edited) I am recently finding myself very confused trying to understand this guy whom I started seeing about 4 weeks ago,though I have known him for much longer. Since that time he has made it clear that he likes me, and even asked me to be exclusive, though I declined because I wanted more time. For V-day he devoted his entire day to me and went all out on the v-day stuff. He treated me very well. We met through work and so we see each other twice a week at the place where we work. He always walks me home, holds my hand, and kisses me good bye. We've also made out. Well, this is all very recent, but he doesn't really call me that much, (twice a week, maybe) and canceled our previous plans b/c of work. The last time we saw each other was v-day and he has yet to call me to do anything. We will see each other at work, but that's b/c we have to. I'm just really confused... where is this going? Any advice on what I should do? I wouldn't be posting on here except that I really see a future with him, he's not like the previous guys I've dated, and definitely has all the character qualities I would look for in a guy. So I know this may not seem like much of a problem, but I really don't want to mess this one up. I feel like we should have something planned this weekend, and I feel like it's his job to initiate , since we've really only been on 2 formal dates, but it doesn't look like he's going to. Thanks! Edited February 20, 2008 by ddkeifo
Jilly Bean Posted February 21, 2008 Posted February 21, 2008 Well - he said he wanted to be exclusive, you said no, that you needed more time, so now he has backed off. Pretty much hes giving you what you asked for, hon.
Audg1964 Posted February 21, 2008 Posted February 21, 2008 I am recently finding myself very confused trying to understand this guy whom I started seeing about 4 weeks ago,though I have known him for much longer. Since that time he has made it clear that he likes me, and even asked me to be exclusive, though I declined because I wanted more time. For V-day he devoted his entire day to me and went all out on the v-day stuff. He treated me very well. We met through work and so we see each other twice a week at the place where we work. He always walks me home, holds my hand, and kisses me good bye. We've also made out. Well, this is all very recent, but he doesn't really call me that much, (twice a week, maybe) and canceled our previous plans b/c of work. The last time we saw each other was v-day and he has yet to call me to do anything. We will see each other at work, but that's b/c we have to. I'm just really confused... where is this going? Any advice on what I should do? I wouldn't be posting on here except that I really see a future with him, he's not like the previous guys I've dated, and definitely has all the character qualities I would look for in a guy. So I know this may not seem like much of a problem, but I really don't want to mess this one up. I feel like we should have something planned this weekend, and I feel like it's his job to initiate , since we've really only been on 2 formal dates, but it doesn't look like he's going to. Thanks! It sounds like he really likes you and the "ball is in your court." If he went all out for V-Day, it's your turn to go "all out!" Go for it! He sounds like a keeper!
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