Whey2Big4u Posted February 20, 2008 Posted February 20, 2008 I left this girl becuase she never said thank you among other things. Every time i took her out she never ever said thankyou. i broaght this to her attention and she said since we were not strangers there was no need. In fact for her birthday, she complained mostly becasue we took the train in and it was cold, she said she at least DESERVED a car ride in. (i never drive into the city, too much of a hastle) then i bought her $100 senakers which i regret and she would have never said thank you had i handed them to her and said "here enjoy". I was raised to say thank you for everything no matter how you know the person Was i wrong? there were other things like....i hinted to her that when we were goign to watch a movie that she should bring the ice cream and ill do the rest (move, food popcorn) she said she couldnt but she lived near a store and always got herself when SHE wanted. i wound up buying the icecream as usual.
sandflea Posted February 20, 2008 Posted February 20, 2008 Dear God! I think we were dating the same woman! LOL!
Chrome Barracuda Posted February 20, 2008 Posted February 20, 2008 She was just an ungrateful bitch. No consideration for you or your sacrifises. You did the right thing. She'll hit you up again and just tell her. I dont talk to selfish spoiled brats who cant even be thankful of the things they receive. It's common human deceny to say thank you for gifts received and if she doesnt, then you did the right thing in my mind. Good riddance.lol.
Author Whey2Big4u Posted February 20, 2008 Author Posted February 20, 2008 on top of everything she new i had no money from my last relationship LOL. like an idiot after she said "no if you dont have we dont have to go" i still did things... afterwards befrore i left she said that we should go out more and she was tired of staying in the house. this was after i had afficially gone broke
Meaplus3 Posted February 20, 2008 Posted February 20, 2008 I left this girl becuase she never said thank you among other things. Every time i took her out she never ever said thankyou. i broaght this to her attention and she said since we were not strangers there was no need. In fact for her birthday, she complained mostly becasue we took the train in and it was cold, she said she at least DESERVED a car ride in. (i never drive into the city, too much of a hastle) then i bought her $100 senakers which i regret and she would have never said thank you had i handed them to her and said "here enjoy". I was raised to say thank you for everything no matter how you know the person Was i wrong? there were other things like....i hinted to her that when we were goign to watch a movie that she should bring the ice cream and ill do the rest (move, food popcorn) she said she couldnt but she lived near a store and always got herself when SHE wanted. i wound up buying the icecream as usual. I don't think you were wrong at all. It's very rude not to Thank someone IMO. Seem's like she's the very ungreatful type! AP:)
Chrome Barracuda Posted February 20, 2008 Posted February 20, 2008 on top of everything she new i had no money from my last relationship LOL. like an idiot after she said "no if you dont have we dont have to go" i still did things... afterwards befrore i left she said that we should go out more and she was tired of staying in the house. this was after i had afficially gone broke Like Kanye said, She's a golddigger cause she dont mess with no broke nukka. Bottom line is I've been where you are before and you know what I dropped the girl too. And I'vd felt better about my decision. Because what woman just uses a man for his money, She's wasting your time homie. If she was a real woman she wouldnt be all about your money and what you could do for her.
LoveLace Posted February 20, 2008 Posted February 20, 2008 What you asked of her isn't that much to ask, saying thank you once in a while takes 2 seconds and it's polite DUH...I"m surprised if your not feeling pushed farther and farther away from her, since complaining is a total turn-off, and your ideas of manners are apparently different than hers. This sounds like the kind of girl who wants guys to believe that only SHE can make herself happy enough, yet she expects you to go above and beyond for her and know exactly what she wants. She sounds full of herself and non-appreciative. Difference in politeness/manners can be a big indicator of whether or not a relationship will work, if they are too different it's probably not a great match.
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