Author tanbark813 Posted February 21, 2008 Author Posted February 21, 2008 She didn't even apologise? I can get my email from anywhere in the world, so unless its a work email, I think she is BSing too. As I said- Next! Word. And it's a hotmail account, not a work email address. Plus, I can access my work email over the internet and so can a lot of other people I would imagine.
Ebeleptik38 Posted February 21, 2008 Posted February 21, 2008 HAHAH.... was out of town just until 20 minutes ago?.... Take Care? Weeeeaaakk Sauce, oh well plenty of beautiful, big boobied women. You seem like you da man Tan, play ball! NEXT!!!!
xpaperxcutx Posted February 21, 2008 Posted February 21, 2008 Aww man sorry to hear that. You can do so much better. Why did she even bother with an excuse like that? It's rude to see that ppl can't take a min of their day to at least text or email someone back. Well at least you walked away with dignity, T.
Saxis Posted February 22, 2008 Posted February 22, 2008 Going through a bit of this myself, Tan. Had plans to go out on V-day, would've been our 4th date. She ended up sick and I lost my baby-sitter, so we moved to Friday. Said she would let me know how she was feeling, and I haven't heard from her since. Been a week. I knew she had a full weekend, but I've left a couple messages and no response. She even disappeared off MySpace since then and her friends have left comments asking where she's been, so I'm unsure what to think. I've got one more call left in me before I move on....
Author tanbark813 Posted February 22, 2008 Author Posted February 22, 2008 Going through a bit of this myself, Tan. Had plans to go out on V-day, would've been our 4th date. She ended up sick and I lost my baby-sitter, so we moved to Friday. Said she would let me know how she was feeling, and I haven't heard from her since. Been a week. I knew she had a full weekend, but I've left a couple messages and no response. She even disappeared off MySpace since then and her friends have left comments asking where she's been, so I'm unsure what to think. I've got one more call left in me before I move on.... Well that's lame. Good luck, bro.
Phateless Posted February 22, 2008 Posted February 22, 2008 A lot of girls are like that. If they're not interested they'll disappear and hope you do the same. Sorry bud. Next time call yourself more than a day ahead to confirm, so you have time to make other plans if she decides to bail.
Blue Eyed Brain Posted February 22, 2008 Posted February 22, 2008 She did have a good personality and very nice boobs. Tan, I think your more upset on losing the chance to see those boobs than anything else!
Author tanbark813 Posted February 22, 2008 Author Posted February 22, 2008 Tan, I think your more upset on losing the chance to see those boobs than anything else! Am I that transparent?
Ebeleptik38 Posted February 22, 2008 Posted February 22, 2008 Personality + Boobs = Great Combo LMAO! j/k
allina Posted February 22, 2008 Posted February 22, 2008 Am I that transparent? Yes, we all know you're all about the ta-tas
EC Posted February 22, 2008 Posted February 22, 2008 What a BEOTCH! I knew I got the flaker vibe! Awe TB NEXT! lol Search my top 8 I can hook you up lol
Author tanbark813 Posted February 22, 2008 Author Posted February 22, 2008 Yes, we all know you're all about the ta-tas It's not my fault ta-tas are so awesome. What a BEOTCH! I knew I got the flaker vibe! Awe TB NEXT! lol Search my top 8 I can hook you up lol I'm on it.
Jilly Bean Posted February 22, 2008 Posted February 22, 2008 I'm guessing she's bullshytting. Girls do that a lot to save face. I don't think she really cared about saving face. I think she was hoping you would have just gone away... I've been in this situation before where once at the end of a first date, the guy asked if I wanted to go out again. I was very honest and told him no, that I didn't think we'd be a good fit. Because guys always say they PREFER this honesty, right? WRONG. The next day, he sent me a SCATHING email calling me every name in the book, and wasn't I just so high and mighty, etc. I learned my lesson to go back to telling a guy it's OK to call me, and then avoiding his calls after that. I just dont think all guys can handle the truth as well as they think they can...
Author tanbark813 Posted February 22, 2008 Author Posted February 22, 2008 I don't think she really cared about saving face. I think she was hoping you would have just gone away... I've been in this situation before where once at the end of a first date, the guy asked if I wanted to go out again. I was very honest and told him no, that I didn't think we'd be a good fit. Because guys always say they PREFER this honesty, right? WRONG. The next day, he sent me a SCATHING email calling me every name in the book, and wasn't I just so high and mighty, etc. I learned my lesson to go back to telling a guy it's OK to call me, and then avoiding his calls after that. I just dont think all guys can handle the truth as well as they think they can... Not all guys are the same. I would be fine if she said no. There have been times when a girl told me flat out she wasn't interested and while I may have been disappointed I didn't react negatively. I greatly prefer people being straightforward with me over being cowardly and just ignoring me. Just because the guy in your example was a pussy doesn't mean all guys are.
Star Gazer Posted February 22, 2008 Posted February 22, 2008 Just because the guy in your example was a pussy doesn't mean all guys are. And it doesn't mean just because she's a girl she was trying to save face.
Jilly Bean Posted February 22, 2008 Posted February 22, 2008 Not all guys are the same. I would be fine if she said no. There have been times when a girl told me flat out she wasn't interested and while I may have been disappointed I didn't react negatively. I greatly prefer people being straightforward with me over being cowardly and just ignoring me. Just because the guy in your example was a pussy doesn't mean all guys are. Well, I don't know if you could say he was a pussy. Just a guy who couldn't handle rejection well. I think other guys in your position wouldn't have even bothered to contact her again and then go so far as to call her out on blowing you off. She was trying to avoid all of that with you from the get-go, and you still zinged her. No one likes to reject someone and then deal with the fallout of the emotions. Point is, people handle rejection in different ways and at different levels.
Author tanbark813 Posted February 22, 2008 Author Posted February 22, 2008 I think other guys in your position wouldn't have even bothered to contact her again and then go so far as to call her out on blowing you off. I believe in people being straightforward with each other. She was trying to avoid all of that with you from the get-go, and you still zinged her. And all she had to do was say "no" when I asked if she wanted to hang out again and that would have been the end of it. Oh well.. On to bigger and better things.
Jilly Bean Posted February 22, 2008 Posted February 22, 2008 I believe in people being straightforward with each other. And all she had to do was say "no" when I asked if she wanted to hang out again and that would have been the end of it. Oh well.. On to bigger and better things. Agreed, TB. But sometimes in silence, volumes are spoken... Like you said...NEXT!
Author tanbark813 Posted February 22, 2008 Author Posted February 22, 2008 But sometimes in silence, volumes are spoken... Like sand through the hourglass, so are the days of our lives....
Jilly Bean Posted February 22, 2008 Posted February 22, 2008 Like sand through the hourglass, so are the days of our lives.... Hey, I read that on a Hallmark. Don't knock it...
Teacher's Pet Posted February 24, 2008 Posted February 24, 2008 Am I that transparent? I'd show ya mine, but I don't think that would help. -TP my milkshake brings all the boys to the yard
OpenBook Posted February 24, 2008 Posted February 24, 2008 Oh well.. On to bigger and better things. Yes that's right, onto bigger and better boobs - uh, things. :D TanBark I think you did everything right, and I thought she was rather rude in the way she handled it. (Big red flag right there, anyway.) She just doesn't know what she's missing. It doesn't matter. Whew, that was a close one! Next!
marlena Posted February 24, 2008 Posted February 24, 2008 She must have forgotten to wear her contacts and missed that irresistable smile!! Her loss,Tan!
Author tanbark813 Posted February 24, 2008 Author Posted February 24, 2008 I'd show ya mine' date=' but I don't think that would help.[/quote'] Don't sell yourself short, big guy. Yes that's right, onto bigger and better boobs - uh, things. :D TanBark I think you did everything right, and I thought she was rather rude in the way she handled it. (Big red flag right there, anyway.) She just doesn't know what she's missing. It doesn't matter. Whew, that was a close one! Next! Thanks, OB. She must have forgotten to wear her contacts and missed that irresistable smile!! Thanks. Actually, if I had to guess, the height may have been a factor. On her profile she was looking for dudes 5'10" and up (if memory serves) and I thought she might have overlooked that in my case. But when we met in person I didn't get any clear signals of interest. Who knows though...
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