sharkbate24 Posted February 20, 2008 Posted February 20, 2008 Heya Guys, Anyway, I am 15 years old, and I started talking to this girl. My friends told me to add her on MSN and Bebo ages ago (8 weeks), so we started talking. Then a couple of days after talking, we agreed that we loved each other etc, and I was saying that I was so happy we started talking. Then about 3 weeks ago, we met for the first time with my friends, so I asked her out, and she said yes, and we were like really loving together. We kept kissing, hugging etc, until on Monday (3 weeks after the relationship), I hugged her and she didn't hug me back. I asked her what was wrong, and she said she was ill, but I didn't believe it. So I kept asking her what was wrong, and she said to me that we've changed, and things won't be the same, and her feelings for me have changed from the time we first started talking, she was sick of the petite arguments we kept having because of her short temperness and she said it's for the best if we just returned to how we were - as friends. At that time, I wasn't on my own. My friends were there and so were her's. My friends were really mad because of her, and they've been telling me to stop talking to her - but I just can't you know. It's really hard, she's a really good friend, really kind etc. But I knew something was wrong from about 5 days before monday (Monday was the day she dumped me) because she was getting really short tempered with me, she started calling me things while with her friends etc, and I cried infront of her because I couldn't hold my tears in when we kept argueing, and we were on webcam - which was bad. She was with her friend, and apparently the next day they were laughing over it. Deep down, I hate her now for doing this to me, but you know, I told her yesterday that I respected her decision and all that, because life's too short to have enemies. I havn't eaten ever since monday, I just feel not hungry, and whenever I eat I feel sick. I can't sleep (Only had 20 minutes literally), I just can't stop thinking about her. It feels really weird because we used to talk on the phone everynight for like 4 hours, and now we don't, it just feels so weird, and I feel so bored and empty. I've been kinda depressed, feeling like nothing can make me happy now, and I've been really moody etc. I find you can't find a girl like her, I mean she was like perfect you know, she made me really happy, she's the girl I was looking for - and no one can be like her. Sorry if I'm making you guys bored or upset - but you know, I need some people to talk to about it, the more people I talk to about it for some reason makes me happier over it. But I think I'm this badly heart broken because she was my first girlfriend, and we were like planning the future, that we would get married, have kids etc, but to advice you guys, I wouldn't plan the future, because most probrably it won't happen, and you'll feel like your future is ruined etc. Anyway guys, Thanks for reading, What do you guys suggest I do? Thanks guys.
sedgwick Posted February 20, 2008 Posted February 20, 2008 I would say that at 15 years old, you probably don't need to be planning to marry a girl you've been dating for three weeks.
Author sharkbate24 Posted February 20, 2008 Author Posted February 20, 2008 yeah I know, I think thats what made me worse you know -> Planning a future that'll never happen. Anyway thanks for replying
PinkRibbon Posted February 20, 2008 Posted February 20, 2008 I have a child your age and I would highly recommend you discuss this with your parents. You are 15 and do not need to be online with unknown adults. I know it hurts but believe me please talk to someone professional at school or a parent. And a small note...this will pass. Play some video games, hang out with your buddies and talk to one of your parents about this oh yea and eat.
Belkin Posted February 20, 2008 Posted February 20, 2008 (edited) Check out this web page, it has lots of useful insight and tips: http://www.wikihow.com/Get-Over-Your-First-Love And be careful of unknown adults! They bite As long as you stay anonymous I think it's OK... I mean you're not more at risk than all the young adults on this site! But do talk to a real life friend / family member, at least they could give you a real hug, and that helps loads! Edited February 20, 2008 by Belkin
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