confused wife & mom Posted February 19, 2008 Posted February 19, 2008 I have been married for 15 years and have two children. I recently caught up online with an old boyfriend. We talk on MSN everyday. He makes me laugh and feel good about myself. Then I go home and am mom and wife. I dont go out much other than for my kids. My husband and I dont spend any time together without the kids. I just found out that my ex and his girlfriend are moving in together. I am so jealous and angry. I know I dont have any right to feel this way, but I do. I am making a trip to the City he lives in in a few months. We are suppose to get together for "coffee". I have always told him that we are friends, but my feelings go deeper than that. I am so confused. I dont want to lose him again.
dani_girl33 Posted February 20, 2008 Posted February 20, 2008 You do not want to ruin what you have with your husband. You should act out on the "deeper" feelings that you have. And don't ever mention it to your ex. You don't want to give him the thought that he may actually have a chance with you if he is still at all interested in you. Don't ruin the good things that you already have. You need to start setting dates with your husband, get a babysitter for the kids. You need to have some alone time with your husband. It's important to do so.
justpassingthrough Posted February 20, 2008 Posted February 20, 2008 What Dani said. You have to know you're on a slippery slope because you know your feelings aren't right. Right?
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