Cormega Posted February 19, 2008 Posted February 19, 2008 Ok after months of being 'single' and a lurker in these forums, I'm here in the mist of a breakup. Quick story: I'd met this girl through a mutual friend of ours in November. We hit it off, and began texting quite a bit, meeting up for drinks, etc. The third time we met, we kissed quite a bit in my car. She invited herself over, and I declined. I wanted to get to know her a little better before I got intimate with her. As a few months went by, we got more serious along the way. I am in a point in my life where I'm working a lot. I work two jobs, and am in the middle of starting a design company as well as pursuing my MBA. She is completing her masters as well. Long story short, in these past months I've began to slowly distance myself from my second job as well as my company (I own it along with four other partners, and am in the process of getting bought out). I'm going to have a lot more time to hang out with her, or so I told her a few weeks ago. Two weeks ago we had dinner. After dropping her off at her parents, we kiss and she tells me it freaks her out a bit that she likes me so much without having a 'tradtional' hang out period. She then makes me promise her that I will come visit her in florida. I have family in Florida, so I agree, and book us a hotel and dinner reservations in downtown Miami as a surprise. A few days after her parents, she begins acting distant. With me being busy at all I don't say anything. So the day after Valentines day--we missed each other on V day. I finally track her down. She says sorry for being so distant, but she feels weird, like we are more like friends. I'm like..."Ok, well I respect your decision.." She cuts me off and tells me that its probably just a passing feeling, but she wants to be honest, and she just needs time to think. I tell her that we should cancel Fla and she begins to tell me what a wonderful man I am and how stupid she thinks she is feeling. I tell her don't sweat it. She indicates that she wants me to call, but I say that I don't want to talk about it, what's done is done, and hang up on her crying. Today after my Grandmothers funeral (we where very close) she sends me this e-mail: I have been trying to figure out exactly what it is and why I did this, especially now, partly to give you a deserved explanation and partly for me to have a grasp on it. I still don't know how to do that. I would talk to you about it if you want. I'm very sorry about the trip, I wish you had told me all that stuff. I just figured it was better to do it when I started to feel this way rather than pretend for the sake of a trip Now I'm in a catch 22. I really like this girl, but let me say straight up that I have NO problem meeting women, and girls say I'm good looking. I just know what I like, and this girl is it, but I refused to be played. In you guys expert opion, should I contuinue dialoge? So confused...thanks for reading!
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