anotherother24 Posted February 19, 2008 Posted February 19, 2008 For those dealing with infidelity, kind of a different question, but I'm just curious....Do you and your BS/WS still do "normal" things together...like say go shopping, or work or whatever....like does daily life things still take place together even if you are having problems? or do you avoid them at all? have things changed at all in that way?
SimpleyMe Posted February 19, 2008 Posted February 19, 2008 Yes we still do things together we go out to eat together,shopping we have date night on the weekend and we go out. Im not saying everything is fine, i can't say i trust him because i don't,but that is something we are working on.
jenniferc1114 Posted February 19, 2008 Posted February 19, 2008 We actually do the everyday things more now than before. Yes we have date nights too on the weekends. I used to do all the shopping by myself or with one of the kids. He now goes with me all the time. I still feel akward around some events. We have not been to his parents home together yet, and only visited mine for the first time 01-26-08. Before that our last visits for seeing parents or family together was Aug 2007-all family do live approx 200 miles away so it's not like we have the chance daily, but we have each spent time with our own immediate family separatly. I also felt akward over the holidays with parties invites from friends. I was simply embarressed and chose to not go at all.
Author anotherother24 Posted February 20, 2008 Author Posted February 20, 2008 ohh ok...but is that any indication that things are better for you all?
once_golden Posted February 21, 2008 Posted February 21, 2008 yes we definitely do the every day things together. we go out to dinner, see movies, visit friends - i don't know if it indicates that we're getting better or not. but we're working together, and that's crucial.
jj2007 Posted February 22, 2008 Posted February 22, 2008 For those dealing with infidelity, kind of a different question, but I'm just curious....Do you and your BS/WS still do "normal" things together...like say go shopping, or work or whatever....like does daily life things still take place together even if you are having problems? or do you avoid them at all? have things changed at all in that way? Yes we still do the "normal" things together. We also do new things too now to try to bring us closer together again. H recently took me out on a date. This was a big deal to me because we had not been out on a date in over two years! We are working on communication and being in love again. So far, so good.
Jess-Belle Posted February 22, 2008 Posted February 22, 2008 Yes, we still do normal everyday things together. Even shortly after it all went down, we went to the movies, out to eat, etc. Like jj2007 mentioned we are also doing new things together. It's all part of rebuilding the trust and closeness -- not even to the degree it was before, but to even better than it was before. Some days are hard and clouded with sadness, but we still fight to take another step closer to healing and happiness.
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