LOVE DAISIES Posted February 19, 2008 Posted February 19, 2008 Thought this might be a more lighthearted thread on this subject... If anyone who has been in an affair or is in one....if you have any words of wisdom of how to endure an affair or get over one....post here. I'll start... "Do unto others as you'd have done to you" "If they did it WITH you, they can do it to you"
SpanksTheMonkey Posted February 19, 2008 Posted February 19, 2008 I'll start... "Do unto others as you'd have done to you" "If they did it WITH you, they can do it to you" Nice and very true
OpenBook Posted February 20, 2008 Posted February 20, 2008 Or how bout this: "DO others as you'd have them DO you." How's THAT for lighthearted. Actually, if married people would just apply that to each other (along with the erotic oils, etc.) -- there might just be fewer affairs taking place!!
Lizzie60 Posted February 20, 2008 Posted February 20, 2008 "Behind every successful man is a woman, behind her is his wife." Groucho Marx
Lizzie60 Posted February 20, 2008 Posted February 20, 2008 And this one from a MM : 'All those curves, and me with no brakes'
Meaplus3 Posted February 20, 2008 Posted February 20, 2008 Thought this might be a more lighthearted thread on this subject... If anyone who has been in an affair or is in one....if you have any words of wisdom of how to endure an affair or get over one....post here. I'll start... "Do unto others as you'd have done to you" "If they did it WITH you, they can do it to you" “When it comes to affairs of love and hurt, you have to wait for your heart to learn what your head already knows, then You can break free” AP:)
Carpetrider Posted February 20, 2008 Posted February 20, 2008 Lizzie, You're a friggin hoot. One hilarious gal! I can see why the men love ya!
Lizzie60 Posted February 20, 2008 Posted February 20, 2008 Lizzie, You're a friggin hoot. One hilarious gal! I can see why the men love ya! ..... thank you..
maritallyconfused Posted February 20, 2008 Posted February 20, 2008 "If you can't cum in her, cum on her":laugh:
LucreziaBorgia Posted February 20, 2008 Posted February 20, 2008 For the MM/MW: Your affair is only as strong as the lies you have to tell to hold it together.
LILA BELL Posted February 20, 2008 Posted February 20, 2008 Behind Every Bitch Is A Man That Mad Her That Way
Gwyneth Posted February 20, 2008 Posted February 20, 2008 Here's mine, "Don't have unprotected sex with a married man when you are ovulating. Or, don't sleep with a married man--or any man you do not intend to spend the rest of your life with, unprotected, especially when you are ovulating."
Lovelybird Posted February 20, 2008 Posted February 20, 2008 Behind Every Bitch Is A Man That Mad Her That Way ..................
mental_traveller Posted February 20, 2008 Posted February 20, 2008 Here's mine, "Don't have unprotected sex with a married man when you are ovulating. Or, don't sleep with a married man--or any man you do not intend to spend the rest of your life with, unprotected, especially when you are ovulating." Out of interest, what made you do this? Were you drunk or something, or just got carried away in the heat of the moment?
Lookingforward Posted February 20, 2008 Posted February 20, 2008 "Do unto others as you'd have done to you" "If they did it WITH you, they can do it to you" Do unto others and then split ?
Ms. Red Posted February 20, 2008 Posted February 20, 2008 Thought this might be a more lighthearted thread on this subject... If anyone who has been in an affair or is in one....if you have any words of wisdom of how to endure an affair or get over one....post here. I'll start... "Do unto others as you'd have done to you" "If they did it WITH you, they can do it to you" Hey Daisie, I've thought of you this last week & wondered how you were. I hope your doing better since our last contact. I can't come up with anything witty or clever like some of the previous comments. However, I have to say that if one feels they must "endure" an affair...what's the point?
GreenEyedLady Posted February 20, 2008 Posted February 20, 2008 "Love is just a word until you find someone to give it a definition..." "Love is strong, yet delicate. It can be broken. To truly love, is to understand this. To be in love is to respect this."
Gwyneth Posted February 20, 2008 Posted February 20, 2008 Out of interest, what made you do this? Were you drunk or something, or just got carried away in the heat of the moment? When there's a deep physical attraction between two people, it's bound to happen. We both wanted to for so long but I kept pushing it off because I was unsure. We only did do it a few times, and one of those times this little miracle happened.
OWoman Posted February 20, 2008 Posted February 20, 2008 [sIZE=-1]Heaven has no rage like love to hatred turned, [/sIZE] [sIZE=-1]Nor hell a fury like a woman scorned - William Congreve [/sIZE]MARRIAGE, n. The state or condition of a community consisting of a master, a mistress and two slaves, making in all, two. - Ambrose Bierce Politics doesn't make strange bedfellows, marriage does. - Groucho Marx [sIZE=-1] [/sIZE] A man is only as old as the woman he feels. - Groucho Marx I spent most of my money on booze and women. The rest I wasted. - John Laws
Owl Posted February 20, 2008 Posted February 20, 2008 How about: "Be careful what you ask for...you may get it!"
Gwyneth Posted February 20, 2008 Posted February 20, 2008 How about: "Be careful what you ask for...you may get it!" I like this one, Owl. I always asked for a baby, but dear god, not now, not like this!!!!!
openingup Posted February 20, 2008 Posted February 20, 2008 "There are but two tragedies in life - to lose the heart's desire, and to gain it." - Goethe
nadiaj2727 Posted February 20, 2008 Posted February 20, 2008 These are all things I learned the hard way. ~ Never start a new relationship before completely finishing one that you're in... and only date people who follow this rule. ! When you're dating a man who claims to be getting divorced (thus breaking rule # 1 ), believe nothing that you hear and only half of what you see. ~ Never settle for second best. ! Never be someone's doormat, mattress, landing pad, or dirty little secret. ~ He can't be my soulmate if he's already married to someone else. ~ If he can lie to her, he can lie to me. ~ Remember, you only know what he tells you about his so-called horribly bad neglectful abusive wife, and remember... he's still with his so-called horribly bad neglectful abusive wife. ~ And most importantly... Be strong enough to be on your own. Love yourself first and foremost, always!
LILA BELL Posted February 21, 2008 Posted February 21, 2008 Lick em stick em and send em on there way
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