kissingthecheek Posted February 19, 2008 Posted February 19, 2008 I posted yesterday about a quarrel I had with my bf Sunday night. It's under [COLOR=#660000]I did it again and think he's fed up[/COLOR]. Anyway, he is fed up. He chose not to come over to my house last night and told me he was really frustrated about the whole thing. He sent me a text which said, "We both know we don't have the 'right' chemistry for the long-haul." Then he texted, "Let's take a few days to sort things out and see what we truly want." Although he didn't come right out and say he wanted to break up, I think the writing is on the wall. And, even if we do decide that we miss each other and want to continue to "date," what is the point of being in a relationship if it's not for the long-haul? I'm 39 and have no desire to date around- I want a secure, stable long-term relationship with a future. I asked him why we should continue if he knows there is no future with me. His reply was, "Love is powerful." Shouldn't it be powerful enough to withstand little disagreements? Shouldn't it be powerful enough encourage the long-haul? I am really upset and not thinking clearly. Please help me make sense of this...
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