elkhead71 Posted February 19, 2008 Posted February 19, 2008 Hey guys, So basically I got the balls to ask a really cute girl out, she said yes, we went out on a date(simple dinner and a movie) on Saturday and we had a "great time" (her words) and now I can't get her out of my mind. I was wondering how long should I wait before I ask for a second one, and any advice on what I can do to swoon her. Shes very pretty and cool and has tons of guys swooning over her anything special but not creepy I can do to stand out and get her interested? One of my biggest problems is not being "aggressive "enough and always ending up as being good friends with girls. Thanks Alot
xpaperxcutx Posted February 19, 2008 Posted February 19, 2008 In your case, I would say ask her out after a week but plan the date in advance to make sure that she's free. Don't come on too strong, be casual and ask her to see if she has plans on the weekends or not.
Author elkhead71 Posted February 19, 2008 Author Posted February 19, 2008 A week seems kinda long. Any other advise?
AlwaysLost Posted February 19, 2008 Posted February 19, 2008 I would say if you went out on Sat night, then call her today/tonight. Express that you also had a great time and you would like to see her again, how does sat night sound? I enjoy knowing a guy doesnt play games and is excited to see me again.
shockandawed Posted February 19, 2008 Posted February 19, 2008 I personally think all the so called dating rules and acts are silly. It really depends on the situation and the personalities involved. There is a fine line from coming across too needy and clingy to coming across as aloof, disinterested and a player. It sounds like you both had a great date. You obviously left it with feelings and excitement. It was Saturday and now it is Tuesday, what are you waiting for? More than enough time has passed to follow up with her. I would simply call her, tell her again how nice of a time you had on Saturday and that you would like to get together again this weekend if she would like to. Have a tentative idea in mind on what you would like to do. I would also suggest being open about the day instead of specific if you can. That way, it gives you options if the day you pick isn't a good one. Example, I had a great time Saturday night and would love to get together again, are you available this weekend? As far as swooning, just be yourself!! Sounds like you did ok on Saturday. Confident, humorous and respectful are all quality traits women are looking for.
monkey00 Posted February 19, 2008 Posted February 19, 2008 There are no dating rules when it comes to attraction. As long as you're confident about it, it's not considered eager to be calling the next day. though if you wait too long to call/set up a date, you take the risk of her losing interest. When you call her up tell her you had a great time and make a date for a couple days ahead. You should let things flow naturally.
Star Gazer Posted February 19, 2008 Posted February 19, 2008 I would say if you went out on Sat night, then call her today/tonight. Express that you also had a great time and you would like to see her again, how does sat night sound? I enjoy knowing a guy doesnt play games and is excited to see me again. I second this. It's the timing of the follow-up call post-date that's important here, not the timing of the actual second date or its invitation. I hope you've called her already...
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