Oni Posted February 19, 2008 Posted February 19, 2008 So, uh... my girlfriend mentioned something to me about how she liked to have handcuffs used on her. I was wondering if any girls here had preferences about handcuffs? Like... should I buy some fuzzy ones or is it just better if they're normal handcuffs? Lemme know!
EYECANDY000 Posted February 19, 2008 Posted February 19, 2008 Steel ones! Dont sugar coat it with fuzzy hand cuffs. Get the real deal
Arch Posted February 19, 2008 Posted February 19, 2008 You could get bondage handcuffs that are made out of leather, they don't bite and they are just as secure. I would post a link but it would get me banned
Gold Pile Posted February 19, 2008 Posted February 19, 2008 Don't use steel cuffs. Leather or other soft material. It's just a game so play safe. Canes make less noise than paddles or hand spanking. (an issue if you're in an apt or Motel room) Start slow and frequently caress the area to warm it up first. Slapping a face with your palms is too much, only your fingers should connect with the face. (be sure she's into this, some have real issues with slapping) Make sure you have an understanding about safe words or signals.
curiousnycgirl Posted February 19, 2008 Posted February 19, 2008 Don't use steel cuffs. Leather or other soft material. It's just a game so play safe. Canes make less noise than paddles or hand spanking. (an issue if you're in an apt or Motel room) Start slow and frequently caress the area to warm it up first. Slapping a face with your palms is too much, only your fingers should connect with the face. (be sure she's into this, some have real issues with slapping) Make sure you have an understanding about safe words or signals. How did this go from using handcuffs to full out S&M with caning? I suggest you discuss this with your g/f and find out what exactly she enjoyed. Some people just love the sense that they have no power, and someone else is completely in control. Others enjoy pain mixed with the pleasure - but you need to know before you start!
Nemo Posted February 19, 2008 Posted February 19, 2008 Does she have a history of cheating? Anyway, make sure there is a bowl of water nearby if you leave the room, or the apartment, for a while. Enjoy your freedom, but don't lose the key!
Gold Pile Posted February 20, 2008 Posted February 20, 2008 How did this go from using handcuffs to full out S&M with caning? "full out" ????? Ya have no idea.
curiousnycgirl Posted February 20, 2008 Posted February 20, 2008 "full out" ????? Ya have no idea. Actually I do - and I agree, the use of full out was wrong. However I really don't think suggesting a cane for two newbies is appropriate. Those I know into that stuff ALWAYS learned from someone with experience. It's really not something to be taken lightly.
Arch Posted February 20, 2008 Posted February 20, 2008 lol, theres a difference between canning and "canning", things not to be taken lightly are things like needles, and air restriction. If you can't tell if your partner is enjoying it or not then you should not be doing it in the first place - because its pretty obvious.
Gold Pile Posted February 20, 2008 Posted February 20, 2008 I would prefer using fuzzy ones. Fuzzy canes?
Lovely87 Posted February 20, 2008 Posted February 20, 2008 i consider myself very down to earth/ girl next door type, but I'm totally into the kinky stuff, I want to use handcuffs by my man isn't that into it i think. I have a thing for choking too, if she likes handcuffs, she'd probally like that too!
MakeLemonade Posted February 20, 2008 Posted February 20, 2008 They make some neoprene ones that fasten w/ velcro that are very comfortable. Also, a 1/2 inch diam, very soft rope might also work well, just keep track of skin color/circulation after you tie them - the cool thing about using rope is, should she decide the handcuffs are just the starter, you can keep tying things off/down/together. You can get it at HD, it's VERY soft, not sure what it's made of (maybe nylon?) but just make sure you burn the ends of your different pieces/lengths so they don't unravel. Have fun!
mental_traveller Posted February 21, 2008 Posted February 21, 2008 Whatever you do, don't actually get ones that lock and can't be undone without a key. If you should pass out or something, she'd be stuck. You gotta be pretty careful with any kinds of restraints. Apart from that, go for it. Don't forget to give her a spank and tell her what a naughty girl she's been!
Star Gazer Posted February 21, 2008 Posted February 21, 2008 How did this go from using handcuffs to full out S&M with caning? :lmao: Sh*t, I was thinkin' the same thing...
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