MissingMyHubby Posted February 19, 2008 Posted February 19, 2008 Well I dated a girl for 2 months, it was long distance, and she dumped me seemingly out of nowhere 2+ weeks ago. I havent spoken with her since. She told me I was great, yada yada yada, deserved better, but pretty much convinced me she wasn't into it. She was excited when I asked her to be exclusive, and we ended up sleeping together, than 5 days later she dumped me. Wierd. I think she cheated on me when she was out at the bars, and her roomates are the biggest floozies ever. Anyways, in her AOL IM profile, it USED to say something like "youll regret it if you do it, youll regret if you dont do it, so either way youll regret it, you might as well just do it." I dont know if it was in refernece to us or not. It now reads ""Maybe some women aren't meant to be tamed. Maybe they're supposed to run wild until they find someone- just as wild- to run with." : ) Any takers?
Miyamoto Posted February 19, 2008 Posted February 19, 2008 Seems pretty easy to me. Anyways, in her AOL IM profile, it USED to say something like "youll regret it if you do it, youll regret if you dont do it, so either way youll regret it, you might as well just do it." I dont know if it was in refernece to us or not. No, it wasn't in reference to you. Just a girl looking to sow some wild oats putting a confident message out there. She obviously is hot and knows it. It now reads ""Maybe some women aren't meant to be tamed. Maybe they're supposed to run wild until they find someone- just as wild- to run with." : ) Any takers? Again, she knows she's hot stuff, and is just looking for a good time. I'm actually... could you introduce me? Let me smack that @$$ a couple times. You probably should have been more of a monster in bed. She's lookin for a cowboy.
btc8 Posted February 19, 2008 Posted February 19, 2008 Well I dated a girl for 2 months, it was long distance, and she dumped me seemingly out of nowhere 2+ weeks ago. I havent spoken with her since. She told me I was great, yada yada yada, deserved better, but pretty much convinced me she wasn't into it. She was excited when I asked her to be exclusive, and we ended up sleeping together, than 5 days later she dumped me. Wierd. I think she cheated on me when she was out at the bars, and her roomates are the biggest floozies ever. Anyways, in her AOL IM profile, it USED to say something like "youll regret it if you do it, youll regret if you dont do it, so either way youll regret it, you might as well just do it." I dont know if it was in refernece to us or not. It now reads ""Maybe some women aren't meant to be tamed. Maybe they're supposed to run wild until they find someone- just as wild- to run with." : ) Any takers? First thing's first: remove her from your buddy list. Also, remove her phone number from your cell phone. Next, delete all the emails that you've ever sent to her, or she has ever sent to you. If she did dump you for no apparent reason, then she's no good for you. Deleting all of these things will help you to move on. She has strung you along to a point in the relationship where she gives you ambiguous reasoning, and leaves you feeling ambivalent. Just do the above, and give yourself some time. You don't need her. Oh, and disregard whatever Miyamoto or whoever said, he's obviously an idiot.
Star Gazer Posted February 19, 2008 Posted February 19, 2008 It now reads ""Maybe some women aren't meant to be tamed. Maybe they're supposed to run wild until they find someone- just as wild- to run with." : ) Any takers? That's a line from Sex and the City.
Miyamoto Posted February 19, 2008 Posted February 19, 2008 First thing's first: remove her from your buddy list. Also, remove her phone number from your cell phone. Next, delete all the emails that you've ever sent to her, or she has ever sent to you. If she did dump you for no apparent reason, then she's no good for you. Deleting all of these things will help you to move on. She has strung you along to a point in the relationship where she gives you ambiguous reasoning, and leaves you feeling ambivalent. Just do the above, and give yourself some time. You don't need her. Oh, and disregard whatever Miyamoto or whoever said, he's obviously an idiot. 1. Learn grammar. 2. I told him in a joking manner to do what you said in a boring, nondescript way. Of course he should let this girl go. 3. Don't hate just because I read this girl from a different perspective. Plenty of people have said they relate to me, so just because you're more boring than I doesn't mean you have to hate me for it.
btc8 Posted February 19, 2008 Posted February 19, 2008 1. Learn grammar. 2. I told him in a joking manner to do what you said in a boring, nondescript way. Of course he should let this girl go. 3. Don't hate just because I read this girl from a different perspective. Plenty of people have said they relate to me, so just because you're more boring than I doesn't mean you have to hate me for it. Don't hate...what are you, 12? I don't care if I'm boring. You shouldn't post things joking things that you need to clarify later. Get a grip, and stop trying to point out my imperfections when you don't take others' problems seriously.
Miyamoto Posted February 19, 2008 Posted February 19, 2008 You don't know what I've been through, and how seriously I take people's problems. Just stop talking.
btc8 Posted February 19, 2008 Posted February 19, 2008 You don't know what I've been through, and how seriously I take people's problems. Just stop talking. I never claimed to know what you've been through. If you're a stronger person because of the problems you've overcome, then that's great. But I wasn't trying to make it personal. Whatever information you misunderstood or I may have misconstrued, I apologize. I was only trying to help the poster.
Star Gazer Posted February 19, 2008 Posted February 19, 2008 1. Learn grammar. 2. I told him in a joking manner to do what you said in a boring, nondescript way. Of course he should let this girl go. 3. Don't hate just because I read this girl from a different perspective. Plenty of people have said they relate to me, so just because you're more boring than I doesn't mean you have to hate me for it. This is totally unnecessary. All of it.
Miyamoto Posted February 19, 2008 Posted February 19, 2008 I never claimed to know what you've been through. If you're a stronger person because of the problems you've overcome, then that's great. But I wasn't trying to make it personal. Whatever information you misunderstood or I may have misconstrued, I apologize. I was only trying to help the poster. Of course. That's why you went out of your way to call me an idiot. This is totally unnecessary. All of it. Thank you for singling me out as a male to be the "unnecessary" poster. You should report me so they can kick me off the board, too. Not at all noting that the comments were provoked by someone calling me an idiot.
Star Gazer Posted February 19, 2008 Posted February 19, 2008 Thank you for singling me out as a male to be the "unnecessary" poster. Gender knows no bounds when it comes to being rude, but I'll admit I actually thought you were female from your catty tone. But I really had no idea what your gender was in identifying your rudeness.
Miyamoto Posted February 19, 2008 Posted February 19, 2008 Male, and not the first time I've been told what you've said. Also not the first time I've not cared about what people said about me. How would you have me react, my dear, beautiful Star? Tell me what a real man would do.
Star Gazer Posted February 19, 2008 Posted February 19, 2008 How would you have me react, my dear, beautiful Star? Tell me what a real man would do. I have no idea what you're asking me here, but I sense extreme condescension on your part, which really isn't attractive.
Miyamoto Posted February 19, 2008 Posted February 19, 2008 I have no idea what you're asking me here, but I sense extreme condescension on your part, which really isn't attractive. I should endeavor to attract you? For what purpose, my dear? Gender knows no bounds when it comes to being rude, but I'll admit I actually thought you were female from your catty tone. But I really had no idea what your gender was in identifying your rudeness. I sensed condescension here, and by the way, excellent spelling (must be that JD), and on top of that, gender self loathing. Why equate cattiness to the female gender, necessarily? That's kind of self-sexist.
g1976b Posted February 19, 2008 Posted February 19, 2008 That's a line from Sex and the City. This is a whole other thing. I CANNOT STAND that show right now. Part of me feels like it's part of the reason my relationship failed. The whole "Sex and the City" phenomenon on single women is quite disturbing. Let me preface this by saying there is NOTHING WRONG with single, powerful women going off and finding themselves and being secure in who they are. What I hate about it though is the insinuation that any OTHER way is just plain backwards or weak. If you don't sleep around or do whatever the hell it is that they do, you're really not a strong woman. It's ridiculous. I just wish it was more that women could see that it's fine and good if people choose that route, but you're no less of a woman if you choose a different route that finds you settled down, with a man, in a solid relationship working towards a family. Sorry...just had to get that off of my chest.
Star Gazer Posted February 19, 2008 Posted February 19, 2008 I should endeavor to attract you? For what purpose, my dear? I sensed condescension here, and by the way, excellent spelling (must be that JD), and on top of that, gender self loathing. Why equate cattiness to the female gender, necessarily? That's kind of self-sexist. Your attitude is disgusting.
Miyamoto Posted February 19, 2008 Posted February 19, 2008 Couldn't come up with anything else to say... I'm sorry... next time we'll get you in a better law school... Many people like my attitude because they REALIZE it's 90% jokes...
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