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About a month ago my boyfriend and I broke up because of a stupid fight. The next night I went out to a club with my friend and this guy was paying a lot of attention to me so I went with it. I ended up making out with him, but nothing further (he invited me to his hotel but I refused to go.) Anyway I got back together with my boyfriend the next week and I figured I would never see this other guy again since he is from out of town.

 

Long story short my good friend started dating the guy I was making out with's best friend, so now they are coming back here next weekend. My friend wants me to come clubbing with everyone on Friday but I am not comfortable seeing this guy again because he is so pushy and probably won't take no for an answer. He knows from last time that I got in a stupid fight with my bf and ended up breaking up with him and I flat out told him that I would probably get back with him soon.

 

Should I go to the club? If so what do I say to this guy when he tries the same thing again? I doubt he will believe that I am really back together with my bf.

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If you want to go to the club and have a blast with your friend then you shouldnt let this guy stop you. If you see him again simply tell him that your not interested. I doubt he will try the whole make out session again, after saying hello. Im sure he was probaly drunk and had that liquid courage in him. You dont have to give him a full explanation about you getting back with your bf. Unless of course you are not pressed for time and feel the need to. Bottom line, go to the club with your friend and have fun. If he asks you about your relationship status then tell him your back with your b/f now.

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