Author themessenger Posted February 19, 2008 Author Posted February 19, 2008 (edited) she probably would say should she would be ok way with it. but shes one of those girls that can dish it out but not take it in. Am i to set up a similar situation with an ex to mwke her see the light? and pleasde expand on this reasoning for making me feel wrong. i think thtas realy fed up Edited February 19, 2008 by themessenger
shadowplay Posted February 19, 2008 Posted February 19, 2008 I think I pretty much follow the same pace. Same pace for me as well with one exception. I don't usually talk on the phone every day from day one because I'm not a big phone person and I don't feel enough of a connection with the guy yet to sustain daily conversation. It's sort of like "What do I talk about?" I also don't want to make the relationship go stale by overdoing the contact at the beginning. I like to keep some mystery and have him guess about what I'm up to between our dates. I also almost always have them initiate contact, even later in the relationship. At the beginning my bf and I only spoke once or twice a week, and often it was just to schedule our next date. Once we became exclusive it was more frequent. 3-5 times a week, but usually by IM. It's only recently that we've started talking everyday by phone because we've finally reached a level where our phone conversations flow naturally and it feels weird to go a day without hearing from each other. Took awhile for us to get there.
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