Author Star Gazer Posted February 20, 2008 Author Posted February 20, 2008 Ok, well then. It's not like you can really process this like a personal slight, I mean - he's never met you. I wouldn't read anything into it. But again, the good take-away is that you're moving on from the ex... Both are very true!
Cobra_X30 Posted February 20, 2008 Posted February 20, 2008 And Im going to take Cobra's advice and just wait for stuff to fall in my lap. What with the Lunar Eclipse, all kinds of magical things are possible! Good things come to those who wait. Yes. I've learned to look at a person's core rather than simply what they do to woo me. A very good lesson to learn. I've found it hard to practice. How do you determine a mans core?
Jilly Bean Posted February 21, 2008 Posted February 21, 2008 How do you determine a mans core? By cutting him in half?
Author Star Gazer Posted February 21, 2008 Author Posted February 21, 2008 I have serious ego issues. I'm literally irritated as all get out that this dude hasn't taken the bait and responded to my message! How dare he?!
curiousnycgirl Posted February 21, 2008 Posted February 21, 2008 No, he's definitely blowing me off. He told me he was on Match, and that that's how he was able to meet and date other women with his schedule. I found him on there... and every time I click on his profile, it says he's online. If he has time to be traipsing around Match, he has time to respond to my message. Don't even go there. One can be online with the window minimized. One can be on the phone but on back to back phone calls. Earlier in this thread you said one finds time for things they find important - let's be honest, he hasn't met you yet, so you cannot possibly be important to him! I know you're feeling good, but you still need to take a chill pill - stuff comes up.
Author Star Gazer Posted February 21, 2008 Author Posted February 21, 2008 (edited) Don't even go there. One can be online with the window minimized. One can be on the phone but on back to back phone calls. Earlier in this thread you said one finds time for things they find important - let's be honest, he hasn't met you yet, so you cannot possibly be important to him! I know you're feeling good, but you still need to take a chill pill - stuff comes up. Yeeeeeeeeeahhh, our mutual friend just confirmed it was a blow-off. I'm gonna "date like a man." Edited February 21, 2008 by Star Gazer
Krytie TV Posted February 21, 2008 Posted February 21, 2008 Yeeeeeeeeeahhh, our mutual friend just confirmed it was a blow-off. I'm gonna "date like a man." Heya Star... long time no talk. I don't really believe you feel this way, but rather wish you did, am I right? You know I went through a lot of crap in the recent past with feeling overly rejected and decided I needed to put everything on hold. What I've learned from this experience is that I knew I was ready to get going again when I truly didn't care if I was ready to get going again. I would say to you that as long as you're asking yourself if you're ready to start dating again, then you should really take that as a sign that you need to continue being selfish and taking care of yourself without worrying about letting someone else into your life or giving your time to someone else. After the first month of being selfish (i.e., closing off contact with ex and not initiating new relationships), you'd be surprised how much enjoyment you can find in the simplicity of single life. My dog LOVES ME AGAIN!!! Also, I want to add that you really are starting to give off an elitist tone in the way you deal with people who respond to your posts. Try not to be so oversensitive to what people have to say. It has always been this way here, and there's no reason it should stop just because you're going through a breakup, know what I mean? Ignore and move on to the next post if that's how you feel. Anyway, good luck. My vote is that you turn off your phone for the next week (or month) and find something selfish to do. You may be glad you did. Your value isn't in how men feel about you.
Lishy Posted February 21, 2008 Posted February 21, 2008 How horrible to be blown off by man after man! No wonder you feel so crappy Star!(bless) Maybe you should ask your therapist what it is that you do that makes men have initial interest and then just dart off? Maybe it is something simple? Yeah date like a man, that is the answer! Teach em all!!!!!!!!!!!!
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